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  • Just_Saying
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 7

    Time to let go!

    What is it with guys? I tell them that I am not interested, and they continue to follow me around. When I told them that, it was not out of anger or spite but from the heart of my bottom; literally, Heart of My Bottom.

    The fact will never change no matter how these guys want to change my decision. Time, consistency, and being in my face all the time will not change anything at all. I will not snap out of it one day.

    I am so annoyed and sick by them to the point I can't control my thoughts in order to ignore them. They are in my face all the time. I can’t do anything without them following me, seeing what I do, and speculalting and assuming my opinions about them have changed. Nothing has changed and it will never change. How can guys continue to do this when I have specifically pointed out all the ugly things about them. This has become an obsession.

    I wish they would direct their energy on someone else that would give them what they want. I have done all I can to tell them off; I am venting so I wouldn’t get sick. Literally physically sick.
  • sourpuss
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2006
    • 3581

    Whoa, whoa, whoa. Ok, we need a bit more information here.
    Is it one guy specifically you're talking about? How did you meet? Were you friends before he expressed interest? Is there a reason he thinks he'll win you over. How did you tell him that you weren't interested, were you polite and matter of fact or were you rude?

    How are they 'in your face' all the time?

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    • lonestar
      Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 87

      hahaha... I understand JS. There was a guy at work who asked me out every single day when he knew I had a very serious relationship that was in no way going to end (and even if it did, he still had no chance...ever). He told me he loved me and asked me to lunch all the time; when he got his new couch he invited me over to "try it out". It got to the point where it was not funny anymore, it was awkward! Good thing his company relocated him...

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      • Calicorado83
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2009
        • 224

        This is where the word B**** started, because of guys like this. Sometimes, you just have to resort to that desperate measure.

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