I was working for this wholesale fragrence company. While working there i became friends with this married man. I thought it was all innocent and nothing will come of it. I thought that the flirting would just be that and nothing else. This man took me under his wing at this job. He is very attractive and could have any girl he wants if he wanted to. But thats not what did it for me. He seemed caring and nice and sincere. Its like he had my best intrest at heart.
I took him home one day after work because his brother had his car. We just talked about work and other things. Just general conversation at least thats what i thought. He asked me for my number and i tried to ignore it because i knew he was married, but he asked for it again and so i gave it to him. Yeah how weak was that.
Basically we started to talk on the phone. At first it was just about work. Then we started to meet up and at first it was just kissing. We went on our first business trip and shared a hotel room and nothing happened. We just cuddled and i enjoyed it.
He start to tell me how he was going to leave his wife because she isnt suportive of the job. (we got paid off commission) and she didnt like it. He said that once he opens up his office he wants me to work in it with. He also said he wanted me to step my game up so he could make me his wife. So i will be happy and he would be happy. And once he opens up the office he wants me to have a baby by him. (him and his wife dont have kids together. The wife doesnt have any kids. He has 3 by his ex girlfriend and wants 6)
One day the wife calls and askes me do i know her husband. I called and told him and he said if she calls back then tell her we work together so i did just that. The next night he called me and put his wife on the phone trying to make it seem like it was somebody else talking to me and texting me all those times from his phone. And the wife actually bought the story.
This ****ed me off to the tenth degree. The wife calling is one thing, but him calling and putting her on the phone is another. I broke it off with him and told him to find somebody else to work in the office with. I tried to end it on good terms but he didnt respond to my message. So i figured he accepted it as over and so have I.
I was wrong again because a few days later out of the blue he texts messages me saying whats up. And me being weak and not completley over him we started back talking. Why do we do these things and we know whats happening? I have convinced myself that i wont get emotionally attatched to him, but im lying to myself and i know it.
Why wont he leave me alone and just be done with me? Why am i being so weak when i am a strong person? I need some advice to let this man go. yes you will say cut off all contact, but that's easier said than done. I feel so stupid. Could he really be interested in me and not just the sex? (we have only had sex one time). I have tried to talk to other men (single) to get over him but its not working. and get this he asked me have i been having sex with anyone else except him and he doesnt want me to. he wants me to wait on him. oh the nerve of him. Please help me.
No sarcastic remarks. We all make mistakes what matters is what you do after youve made the mistake. Im trying to make my wrong into a right. no matter how it seems i really am.
I took him home one day after work because his brother had his car. We just talked about work and other things. Just general conversation at least thats what i thought. He asked me for my number and i tried to ignore it because i knew he was married, but he asked for it again and so i gave it to him. Yeah how weak was that.
Basically we started to talk on the phone. At first it was just about work. Then we started to meet up and at first it was just kissing. We went on our first business trip and shared a hotel room and nothing happened. We just cuddled and i enjoyed it.
He start to tell me how he was going to leave his wife because she isnt suportive of the job. (we got paid off commission) and she didnt like it. He said that once he opens up his office he wants me to work in it with. He also said he wanted me to step my game up so he could make me his wife. So i will be happy and he would be happy. And once he opens up the office he wants me to have a baby by him. (him and his wife dont have kids together. The wife doesnt have any kids. He has 3 by his ex girlfriend and wants 6)
One day the wife calls and askes me do i know her husband. I called and told him and he said if she calls back then tell her we work together so i did just that. The next night he called me and put his wife on the phone trying to make it seem like it was somebody else talking to me and texting me all those times from his phone. And the wife actually bought the story.
This ****ed me off to the tenth degree. The wife calling is one thing, but him calling and putting her on the phone is another. I broke it off with him and told him to find somebody else to work in the office with. I tried to end it on good terms but he didnt respond to my message. So i figured he accepted it as over and so have I.
I was wrong again because a few days later out of the blue he texts messages me saying whats up. And me being weak and not completley over him we started back talking. Why do we do these things and we know whats happening? I have convinced myself that i wont get emotionally attatched to him, but im lying to myself and i know it.
Why wont he leave me alone and just be done with me? Why am i being so weak when i am a strong person? I need some advice to let this man go. yes you will say cut off all contact, but that's easier said than done. I feel so stupid. Could he really be interested in me and not just the sex? (we have only had sex one time). I have tried to talk to other men (single) to get over him but its not working. and get this he asked me have i been having sex with anyone else except him and he doesnt want me to. he wants me to wait on him. oh the nerve of him. Please help me.
No sarcastic remarks. We all make mistakes what matters is what you do after youve made the mistake. Im trying to make my wrong into a right. no matter how it seems i really am.
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