[MryAkE]

Hey Girls,

here is a little explanation on whats going on, last year i got pregnant from my boyfriend, we wasn't the stablest relationship, but when i found out i was pregnant he started to treat me worst then ever, he always stressed me out, we ended up braking up this fall and he was away going to school, he did something things that still bothers me to this day, he didn't really care what happened to me and our child, he use to insult me, put me down, call me not appropriate names and he just treated me like complete dirt but i ended up getting back with him a couple of weeks before i gave birth to my child, but i have no trust for him, i am scared he is going to hurt me again, because he keeps doing things that makes me upset for example.

he goes on this porn webcam site where you pay girls to do things for you, i told him i do not like him going on there and it feels like hes cheating on me and if he don't stop then i am going to leave him, he keeps promising he wont go on those sites , but he still do (he even told me the girl he goes to see has a good personality and thats why he likes to watching her). am i over reacting or is this a problem?

we are not living in the same town atm but we are together, he is going to school while i am living with my parents.

[jns]

He does not respect you. You should break this relationship. Somewhere out there is the right guy for you who will respect and love you.

[kira]

I don't think the porn webcam is that high on the problems list in this relationship. You should not have to worry someone is going to hurt you. Emotionally or physically. You should not wonder if they care about you or their child. You should not feel worse for talking with them. If those things are true it's time to tell them goodbye and don't look back. The fact he's going on the webcam is just an example of how he feels.