[switzgirl]

Hey girls-so i dont know what to think...my boyfriend has been invited to his buddies batchelor party....my automatic reaction-freak out- strippers....the club scene....lap dances.......god...how am i not suppose to be jealous????my man is gonna have some female on top of him.....i wouldnt mind if i were going to be there....i like going to the strip club.....
how do i deal with this......i dont want to **** him off

[housewife]

Don't send your husband to a place where naked women and alcohol are offered for free.

when men get drunk they could do anything, and then they blame it on alcohol.
I hate when the excuse is "I was drunk".


switzgirl, If someone has to dance and strip for him , that would be only you.

[patricias213]

Don't send your husband to a place where naked women and alcohol is offered for free.

when men get drunk they could do anything, and then they blame it on alcohol.
I hate when the excuse is "I was drunk".


switzgirl, If someone has to dance and strip for him , that would be only you.

Totally agree!

[steph*]

talk to him and tell him that you don't want him to go because you just don't think its right! tell him that you want to go. I think that would be fun you know and plus if he is not going to do anything bad than it shouldn't bother him right? trust me if he respects your feelings he will do the right thing. Just have a good conversation with him. the way to get your man to do something for you talk to him nice like for ex: "sweetie can we talk? I really don't want you to go this place because blah blah blah... " because if you confront him with anger or screaming its not going to work you guys are going to end up fighting. trust me it works! I do that with my boyfriend!

[switzgirl]

you all dont understand

my boyfriend is older than me and has been doing whatever he wants for a long time---I'm really not so opposed to him actually going- i know that he wants me..and only me-i just need to know how to occupy my time while hes gone...how do i not go crazy?

[steph*]

why dont you go out with your girls too?? have a girls night out and have fun! you should tell him to take a cell phone so you can call and not be so worried!

[ladyinred9]

I like what steph said....Go out with the girls! That way you are not sitting at home worried all night. And have a talk with him and set your boundaries!!