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  • adviceanyone
    Member
    • May 2012
    • 44

    break up but in my heart, didn't want to say goodbye

    i broke up with my of 3 years 2 days ago. for the past year he had not been treating ne right and could be very nasty toward me . . last night he texted me and told me that he loved me and wanted to see me, i agreed but i later met Guy T the pub, nothing happened but i toldmy ex that i gave this gu y my number. now my ex won't talk to me, he has been rejecting my phonecalls and won't reply to my messages. i didnt was us to be over, i just wanted him to realise what he could loose if he didn't start treating me better. Im so confused. i don't get it at all. was it all just to see if he could have me? Im heartbroken. what do i do now? i love him but he hates me.
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Sometimes when you play games like these, the other person becomes scared that what you said was true and then goes ahead and does something that is irreversible. Playing games can cause bad outcomes. It's best not to play such games.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • jamesmarshalls
      Senior Member
      • Apr 2012
      • 111

      Talk to him straightly and tel how you feels.
      “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”

      ― Mae West

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