[adviceanyone]

i broke up with my boyfriend because he was horrible to me, for two weeks after we broke i was having fun again and meeting new people..
however he rang up , wanting another chance , i met up with him and he was treating me like he did when we first started going out and i loved it! he wanted to us move in with eachother and start a family, i said yes and we enjoyed almost two weeks of bliss, but then things went back to the way they were, he was nasty and mean so i broke up with him. the dilema now is that my period is late and im so scared.. all he can say is to abort it. i am heartbroken, he wanted a baby and now here i am, alone and possibly pregnant and he couldn't give two ****s!!he is blaming everything onto me and said that its not his problem.

about a week ago i met someone, he is such a great guy and he is making me happy, i haven't told him any of this , i am praying to god that i am not pregnant and can just forget my ******* ex and move on with my life.

i have no one to talk to and i am terrrified. what do i do?

[Mes T]

I think the most important thing is to learn from your mistakes. Next time you break up with someone because he is horrible, don't ever get back together with him, under any circumstances. And if you want kids you gotta be especially choosy about your partner, okay? Because you are essentially choosing a father for a new human being, one they will have for the rest of their life.

As for the current scare, did you use any protection at all? Do you know what part of the cycle you were on when you had sex? How late are you? I would wait a few days and then take a pregnancy test, a cheapo one bought from any store will do.

Some woman-to-woman advice... Consider taking it easy with new guys, okay? Knowing someone for a week is not really knowing them. This new guy might be really fun to be around but don't go making any plans until you really, really get to know him. A person's true colors sometimes don't come to the surface until months of dating, once the butterflies-in-the-tummy phase wears off.

[jns]

Guys generally do not change. Yes, they can hide their true selves for a while, but then they will revert to their true style. You are doing the right thing to stay out of a relationship with your ex bf.

About the new guy: he is making you happy, but so did the ex bf for 2 weeks. The ex bf was probably nice for a while longer than 2 weeks the first time, also. Take more time getting to know the new guy before getting in a relationship with him. Hopefully you won't have to go through what the ex bf put you through again, but take things slower this time.