[Angel95]

So, I have known for a while that I like girls. I have dated them before, I slept with my last girlfriend all the time.( I know people will think, why am I calling myself a virgin? ( Which i have in other posts.)Well I only consider myself a half virgin, while I have never been with a man in anyway, I have had sex with a woman manytimes.) I love girls, they are amazing, I find that girls satisfy me in all aspects. including sexual. However, I just dont find men sexually attrctive. If I met a man, who I loved to hangout with, I would date him in a heartbeat, I love guys for their personalities. However, I CANT STAND the thought of having sex with one. Thinking of penis, just makes me gag. I dont know why, I just always picture a wrinkly, old, hairy, smelly, gross, stick thing. I mean, I would hate to be with a guy and dissapoint him, because I cant stand the thought of his penis inside me. I tell people I am Bisexual, but is it possibr that I am lesiban? Also is this just a phase? Do you think I will change my minde about penis, after Ive had one inside of me?

[Stillness]

I don't know, but I find penises and vulvas unattractive in and of themselves. You say penises are smelly, but that may not be a bad thing. Men and women release pheromones to arouse their mates and alter moods. There are all kinds of studies on this. My wife's scent makes me high. I sneak in sniffs of her whenever we're together. If you find the right guy nature may take its course.

Also, I recently asked my wife if she found my penis attractive. She gave an unenthusiastic, "yeah." Know why I don't care? Because she swears by it being inside her when she climaxes. She has told me that nothing else compares. It's actually dissapointing in one sense because I'd like to get her off other ways. But she makes up for my dissapointment with her unwavering devotion to my unit being all up in her stuff. My point: yeah, it's possible that you may change your mind if the penis is attached to a cool dude.

[Angel95]

Yeah I hope so, Im just scared Ill meet a great guy. who I wont be able to sastisfy. Oh well I suppose one day Ill have to try it, and see if that changes things.

[Magnetism]

Based on what you wrote, I feel like you like women more. But, you are the one that knows yourself best. It can be difficult to classify ourselves. I love going down on men, but I don't like going down on women (or maybe my experiences weren't that good). However, I'm very attracted to women's breasts and see a lot more attractive women than men. I'm attracted to just a handful of men out there. I enjoy kissing both men and women, and like it when they touch me.

[rcoreyus]

It sounds like you prefer being intimate with women - nothing wrong with that. If you do become involved with a guy though, you need to make sure that everyone is on the same page. If he is expecting the relationship to become intimate, and you are turned off by that, you could have a lot of hurt feelings.

What label you use for yourself doesn't matter.

[Element]

Aside from sex, have you ever met a male and fell head over heels with him? Have you ever had that heart to heart connection with a man?