[adviceanyone]

ok so following my previous threads you would know that my ex broke up with me and then asked to be fwb.. well last night i spent the night with him and i cannot believe what a cocky little **** he is , its actually hilarious how good he thinks he is..

the night started great but then it went up to is bedroom , he wanted me to go down on him and i refused, i have never gone down on him and had no real desire to now that we arent together anymore. ( his mood went from happy to immediately ****ed off) he turned his back to me and gave me the silent treatment for half an hour ( it was like he thought that i would give in and give him what he wanted but i didn't).

then this morning as we were driving back to my place to drop me off i told him that last night was it , i didn't want to have sex with him any more and he turned around and said " i don't think you have it in you to stop seeing me , i mean look at me ".

i no longer see anything attractice in him at all . the fact that he thinks his the **** has made him ugly in my eyes. ( even when i first met him i didn't think he was that attractive but my feelings for him changed that.. however now that my feelings have faded for him , i can actually see him for the player that he is)

the fact that he thinks that i will come crawling back to him , has made me more determined than ever to have him out of my life! i have had other guys chasing me but i wouldn't give them a chance because i wanted this guy , but i think its about time i move on and find someone who is worth my time !: )

[Hugo-B]

I don't think you're dumb, you gave him a chance and he blew it, he tried to use you and you didn't let him - good on you.

It sounds like your ex probably has another chick on the go which is what has sent his (most likely fragile) confidence levels soaring through the roof and way, way into the 'unattractive arrogance' zone.

Be prepared for him to come crawling back (using emotional and moral blackmail to try and 'woo' you) when she gets shot of him. Don't accept, you deserve better. Just stay away from him and keep yourself occupied. You've already got other guys after you so just keep your eye out for a good one!
Good luck, well, and congratulations, in no particular order!
x

[KMonte85]

Wowza... he sounds like a 14 karat JERK! Good for you for breaking it off and focusing on the future. This guy isn't worth your time..

[adviceanyone]

do you want to hear something worse ? his mother noticed that i was there and asked if we were back together and he turned around and said no definately not , we aren't we are just ****ing. ( i heard everything from his bedroom)

i hate him and will never again give him the statisfaction of being able to sleep with me. he is a complete tosser!! he won't contact me again but i am fine with that , i don't need someone in my life who makes me feel like ****

[jns]

There are some guys who are extremely conceited. But he also is crude around his mother? Surely you will be able to find someone who is 100% better. Best of luck.

[Hugo-B]

I think he will contact you again. Maybe not in the next few weeks but I'll bet you he does.

Arrogance is often the preferred veil for insecurity. Big ego's are fragile, and usually an illusion. He's riding high right now, mostly due to receiving some kind of external validation (he's probably got another woman on the go) but don't worry, keep feeding him the rope and he'll come crashing down, and probably sooner rather than later...

[Hugo-B]

do you want to hear something worse ? his mother noticed that i was there and asked if we were back together and he turned around and said no definately not , we aren't we are just ****************ing. ( i heard everything from his bedroom)

i hate him and will never again give him the statisfaction of being able to sleep with me. he is a complete tosser!! he won't contact me again but i am fine with that , i don't need someone in my life who makes me feel like ****************

LOL at 'complete tosser'! I haven't hear that for ages.

[adviceanyone]

my mate went to the pub the other night and he was there.. apparantly he was laughing about how he is just ****ing me ( he full on thinks that i will be contacting him soon for sex) and he was also laughing about how he told his mum that he is just ****ing me. i hate him, even the thought of being intimate with him makes me want to gag lol..

sorry for post - just need to vent somewhere !!