[adviceanyone]

okay so i have been friends with benefits with my ex for a bit over a month now , on and off seeing eachother.. however this last week he had been treating me like his gf , was texting me all the time and wanted to see me a hell of a lot more ( it felt like he was into me again) then suddenly he backed right off , started ignoring me and it has confused the hell out of me.

over the past week i have sent in 5 messages , the first was asking him if he still wants to keep sleeping with eachother he replied with "yes i do but i cant tonight but i will let you know when", i replied back trying to make convo but he never replied back to me..
yesterday i sent him one saying " its cool if you want to end things , i will leave you alone if you do but i just want to know".. he sent me another one saying " i don't want to end things , i am just going through some **** right now , just give us some time". i replied saying " i understand that your going through some **** right now, just let me know when you want to talk". i got no reply to that..

i don't know what to do, should i move on or keep waiting ? does it sound like he has something going on with someone else and is just keeping me hanging as an option?

is this all signs that he does want to end things but just does not want to be the one to have to do it ? please some one tell me because i am so sick and tired of all this confusion.. someone help !!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Follow your gut feeling. I think you are right.

One of the reasons ex's are ex's is because it's over.

One of the reasons why they sleep with you is to keep your emotions alive, consequently, you can't / don't move on and they don't have to hear about you being in another relationship, it's called EGO. If I ain't going to have you no one else is.

He's disrespecting you.

He may also be confused, someone may in-deed have entered into his life and he's not sure which way to go.

Sounds as if he is testing the waters elsewhere. To , find out.

Just stop sleeping with honey and see what he does.

[KMonte85]

In my opinion, if you're looking for anything from him beyond just sex on his terms/schedule, then yes - you should end this and move forward.

From what you're written here, he's keeping you around to sleep with when he feels like getting off... that's about it. If you're not okay with that, then you need to end it.

[sunnyjessey]

why don't you just ask me straight up. it's the only way to know for sure. if he seems like he's lying then just break it off.