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i get so mad!
ok, so i have been dating this guy for over a year now, we are bestfriends as also girlfriend and boyfriend but about a month ago my boyfriend lied to me for the first time and it was about another girl, turns out they both liked each other, then we went though this really bad stage and we sorted it out, he never talks/see's this girl again. but lately i cant trust him around ANY girl i get all mad and weird when he talks to other girls and half the time it makes us fight. im really sick of fighting with him we fight atleast once a day and its mainly cause i get mad at him, but its always over small things i dont know why i get so mad lately. i dont know what to do, at this rate we are going to break up and i really dont want this his the best thing in my life, and i love him to bits.. -
Well... Seems like your probably Jealous because you don't trust him. Maybe, You see other girls as a threat because he lied to you about one. I don't know, this is just my opinion but if you cant trust someone or fix it then the relationship will fail. Yall need to sit down and talk about the problems with each other in a non threaten way, so it doesn't turn into a fight.
If you think he is going to or has cheat on you, then Id just leave.[COLOR="#800080"][SIZE=2][FONT=Arial Narrow][I]If you don't support our troops, feel free to stand in front of them! [/I][/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] -
You need to forgive what happened in the past and regain trust for him. At this point you're still punishing him for something you've worked through and said you sorted out. If you can't get beyond the hurt/anger/mistrust, then you might as well part ways now because a relationship can't withstand those toxic feelings for long. You need to decide if you can move past it, if you love him enough to TRULY forgive.Comment
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He def needs to regain ur trust. He must understand u are hurt over his dishonest past with you. He is the one who lied and disrespected you and ur relationship..so it is HE who needs to make it right again. He def ahudnt be firting with other girls and if he is you have Every right to be angry. He cant just say sorry for what je has done and never have to prove himself. If he is truly sorry for his past then he will devote every day with you so that u know for sure he isnt going anywhere and he only has eyes for you. He shud make u feel like u have nothing ever to worry about again. U deserve to feel like his only girl in his world. If he is out here making u feel any less than this than it is He who has the problem Not you. U have a right to be so mad and he needs to make u feel so happy and secure again. If he doesnt...u shud move on because if u can never trust him again u will be miserable with himComment
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