'Other Women' fall into two categories;
those who knew the man was married before
they even met him and go after him to 'test
their skill',
those who do not know, whether they practice
willfull blindness or really are that ******.
In the first case, it is all about the wife.
Unless man is rich, (then it's all about the money)
it is just to see if she can take a man away from
a woman he thought 'worthy' enough to marry.
The mere idea that he is with her and not the
wife is what turns her on and makes her feel
equal to the wife.
As I posted in another thread;
Danny, went and got himself a wedding ring
to prove my point.
He was unmarried, had no girlfriend, no money
and didn't look that great.
Wearing that wedding band was the strongest
aphrodesiac. Females flocked him, and when
he would tell them his wife took all his money,
they would buy him drinks, pay for the hotel
room....
Being 'married' gave him instant excuses why
he didn't turn up, why he didn't have money,
why he forgot birthdays.
If any unmarried man is reading this, buy
yourself a wedding band, and visit the
clubs you usually do, and see the difference.
Far from avoiding you, females will be throwing
themselves at you.
In the Second category, a woman with a very
low self image is approached by a man who treats
her as if she is 'somebody'.
He is attentive, nice, interested in her, and she
takes the 'bait'.
She may have an inkling he is married, i.e. she
doesn't have his address or phone number or
can call him, or that he takes her to very out
of the way places, (if he takes her anywhere
at all except the bedroom).
When she officially learns he is married she'll
do a few minutes of drama, then believe him
when he tells her the usual.
She, as those in the other category don't believe
any man will ever want them enough to marry
so they 'fix' the wife by engaging in adultery.
Most married men who have affairs have many
of them through their lifetime and/or the lifetime
of their marriage.
Many have more than one female at the same time.

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