[live]

i was raped and now i feel like every guy i talk to is just in it for sex. it effects my relationships and how i look at guys. i dont know what to do.

[Pollon]

Was this recently? Did you report the rape? Have you told anyone?

Rape has significant effects on the victim and the sooner you get some professional help to deal with it, the sooner and more thoroughly you will recover. There are many free help options available. There is probably a rape crisis center in your area that can help whether or not the rape occurred recently or years ago.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Live, you sure are... Ok.

I am sure that you are in a horrible situation and that being that people know what happened are you still in school?

Keep your head up high. Those guys are douche bags.. The guy that converses with you shows empathy, waits for weeks if not a few months is what you are after and at some point.. No one will know because you will be out of this situation.

Can I suggest also that you seek some councelling to talk it through with someone or stay with us even.. And, this was wrong, the boy because he wasn't a man was wrong.. He took, and it's not your fault.

The right guy will know that, hang in there...

Don't have sex, if I can be blunt.. You are after a relationship, make them chase you and not for a week, a month make them chase you they will soon learn that you are serious about a relationship.

And , strong.