[kareenakapoor47]

Yes KMonte you have understand absolutely correct.Yesterday i called him(for leave,im on leave for two days) then he said we can be only family friends. i want to be his friend but i dont know what to do being friend. he says that he will never go outside of office with me alone. he has blocked me from all chatting applications. he says that you will go to that track again (i.e. loving him). I assured him that not this time give me a second chance. he said ok lets meet day after tomorow in the office. Now i am confused that what can i do with this friendship. how can i grow it. how can i share all my life with him and how he can share his with me. in office we remain very reserved only talk about work. the only way to communicate him personally is through phone and that too i cant call him when he is at home and when he is in office im also in office then how can i call him during office time when he is sitting just few steps next to me. im totally confused but want a good friendship with him. pls help.

[kareenakapoor47]

And also i am looking for some innovative idea. I follow practical rules also but sometime i want to experiment new things in my life. Please give me any new idea of enjoying his friendship with me. i know he likes me as a friend. he had tried to talk me very friendly in office in front of others. he had shared about his family and had asked me about mine. he used to see my mobile and pics of my family and also showed his family pics. now i want all this back and also want to improve it. i want to live a very good life with him as a friend. i like his thoughts he likes mine. during chatting we shared a lot about our thoughts. he is soooo sweet and sooo good looking. i have never seen such a beautiful person in my whole life.

[kareenakapoor47]

Hi Babygirl please tell me how can i improve myself and how can i begin a new relationship with him again.

[BabyGirl]

Kareena.
Hi, I hope I did not seem abrupt with you.But I started here at WH almost 4 years ago. I had an all but the actual Sex ,affair with a Married man, who claimed to be only " roommates " with his wife in an unhappy marriage. That is a Long Story.

If you want to be this mans Friend, then you will respect the mans Marriage. A friend only wants the best for the other part of the Friendship.

It sounds like you really have a Crush/ Fantasy about this man . He may have wonderful qualities that you are looking for in a Man . And being " So Sweet and Good Looking " is something that can make us feel more for them than what they are wanting from us .

I can't tell you how to be his Friend, I can tell you to set yourself Boundaries. He is off Limits in your " Dream Fantasy " but you like and respect him and he you, then keep it at a level of Friendship.

Once again , I'll ask what Country you are from ? It does make a difference to some of us as how to respond. With the different Cultures and Acceptability of behavior. I and I know others would not want to help you stray the wrong way on this .

[kareenakapoor47]

Hi Babygirl i tried today to talk to him on phone but he said he will call me back but didnt call. i think he does not believe that i have changed my mind and want only his friendship. i think its all over now. there is no chance of even good friendship now. now i have decided not to try anything on him coz more i will approach him more he will go away. so i have decided to remain normal with him and not to think anything about making him friend or anything else. there are many other people who can be my good friends. if i will need i will make one of them my good friend. May be he is very sweet or very good looking but he is not mine. ok Babygirl thanks. please reply this thread with your thoughts and experience . its very interesting. and yes im from INDIA.

[kareenakapoor47]

hi everybody! i called him again and got to know what reality was. he told me that his wife always suspects him and hurts their daughter also. his daughter becomes in trouble. so for his daughters sake he does not speak to any girl. he does not have any normal friend who is a girl. but he told me he will talk to me in the office and also unblocked me from chatting application. Now i will not repeat my previous mistakes and i will understand his problem.