[Italian08]

If my bf watches porn in the bathroom while im at his house is that considered cheating or no???

[LanaBear]

My opinion.... No.... But if it bothers you then you should talk to him about it.

[Italian08]

Doesn't bother me tht he watches it it it bothers me tht he does it while im.here and I did say something and he didn't.say anything bak

[jns]

Is your sex life good enough that he really has no need to watch porn? Does he have the sound up so you can hear it? Is he making excessive noise himself? Does he make a mess? Is he neglecting you? Would you be OK with him watching home movies of the two of you? Do you want it to be a joint viewing? What are your objections?

Personally, if my sex life is sufficiently good, I have no use for looking at porn. I normally wouldn't consider it cheating, although I know some people do.

[Italian08]

we were having sex a lot and now its not so much our sex is great he never complained the meds tht he on sometimes he not in the mood it does something to him.which I.understand and when he watches it he goes in the bathroom but he says he gotten take a dump the only reason I know is cuz I went to pee right after and the mess was in the tub I don't hear any noise

[madlionly]

Talk to him about it and ask him if you can watch it with him and ask him why he watches porn. I talked to my bf of a year i told him it made me feel when he watch it without me and i asked if we could watch it together and he told me he would be glad if i watched it with him and now he only times he watches porn is when i'm with him. If he is any typ for a glenmen he will talk to you about it and will let you watche it with him

[Chubby in the middle]

Men watch porn all the time its not anything to do with the woman but just because he can
Its might be because he needs to keep his sex drive up
I watch it quite a lot but its nothing to do with my wife or our sex life its just because she is not there all the time when i feel Horney
And if she wanted to watch it with me that would be awesome

[Guest]

Cheating? I think it depends on your definition of cheating.

While it may not be considered 'physical cheating' where he is sharing intimacy with someone else, clearly he is activity is 'cheating' you out of things in your relationship. Like honesty, being completely open with one another, being able to share everything with each other, the quality of time spent together, the amount/quality/quantity of intimacy you are having, etc.

Clearly there are problems in your relationship, whether you label them 'cheating' or not is up to you.

[Italian08]

He will watch it in the bathroom when im here I don't think its cheating really but y watch it when im here when Iliad can have the real thing our sex is awesome so watch it when im here

[madlionly]

Talk to him about it like i said if you ask he might be happy to watch it with you