[Anxious28]

Hi i'm new here and really need some advice.

I looked on my laptop history today and saw my long term boyfriend had been watching porn in the early hours, now I don't care that he was watching porn, its what he was watching.

He manages an office and works with a couple of ladies around 15/20 years older than him so I was horrified to see he had specifically search for 'milf porn' and 'office porn' and had watch older ladies having sex in an office. It got even weirder when the man in the porn resembled him!

I just need to know does this mean he has fantasies about the women in his office? Why so specific with the choice?

I'm worried he's going to be unfaithful to me, I had no idea that's what he was into.

Thanks for reading!

[Harmony]

He may just have been looking through different 'genres' of porn to idle away the time. If I knew of a porn actor who bore a semblance to me I'd probably send a link to all my friends of it, that's just the way a lot of men are.

If this is just one isolated incident then I wouldn't worry about him cheating, he obviously trusts you enough not to wipe his browsing history ;-)

[Guest]

I agree with Harmony...

If he was really interested in being sneaky, at any level, he would have erased the history.

As to why he did it, who knows? Boredom, curiousity, cheap thrill, fantasy...

I wouldn't make a big deal of it, if I even mentioned it to him which I wouldn't advise doing at this point.

[ItalianSweetie]

Hi. I also agree with Harmony, if he was interested in cheating, he would have definately erased the search history. I wouldn't worry too much at this point, just keep an eye open. Is he still being intimate with you ? Has your sex life changed recently? Is he acting different towards you? If so this may be a bigger issue. Please keep us posted and good luck

[rcoreyus]

Porn is a form of fantasy, and who knows why people have the fantasies that they do. Often people fantasize about things they would never want in real life.

[MoeJr]

The whole "milf" thing is common infatuation among many, and when your searching it, if it was an office thing, probably caught his eye more than others. Easy fantasy so to speak because it's familiar. Agree with the others, if you don't mind him watching porn I wouldn't think too much of it.

[BarbaraARoudebush]

it may just be one of his fantasies, no need to worry

[vampieParadise]

U should discuss these things to him.trust me!my long time bf is a huge porno fan. .unfortunately I just found out recently,all my questions r answerd why we hav a bored sex life..he admitted he's sick and needs help but too shy for pro advice...it destroys a relatioship..dnt waste time!!!