[ShayShay]

i talked to him he took her down. He said all i had to do was ask of course he will. I havent said everything i wanted to but i got it done.

[ShayShay]

I talked to him. He took it down said he didnt know it was bothering me and all i had to do was ask.

[Pollon]

When you have to talk to him about something that you fear will cause a conflict prepare yourself first.

#1 To yourself, finish this sentence: "When I tell him this, I am afraid that ________________." And "he'll get mad" is NOT good enough. It has to be more like. "I am afraid he will think ___________, feel ______________, and do ______________."

#2 Prepare him before you raise the issue by saying: "I need to talk to you about something but I am afraid that you will think ____________, feel ___________ and do _______________. Will you please promise me you will try to stay calm and talk this out before you do anything?"

#3 You can also add, "If would really help me do this if you would ______________ (choose one: stay calm, hug me, not look at me, promise me you will _______, etc, etc.)

#4 Don't assume that a catastrophe will happen. Most things don't result in that.

Good luck

[Bladyn'smommy16]

I use to feel the same wayy with my husband and his favorite porn stars but now I don't care I've been married to him 3 years I mean its just something you will have to learn to bear if you can't than you better get going now not trying to be mean but its just going to start in argument if you try to get him to stop it won't happen hell feel like your trying to control him
That's the only advice I have sorry

[ShayShay]

Bladyn'smommy 16 i talked to him and he took it down if you didnt read it. He did it right after i told him. I told him i dont care he looks at porn bt i just dont want to look at her. She's causing issues for me. And he completely understood.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

That's good (: a lot of women are effected by porn in relationships to me I get ****ed off about his favor porn stars too but oh well but unlike yours mine won't stop I don't care about porn just him having favor but at least he picks some hat resembles me..

[Bladyn'smommy16]

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