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  • julia724
    Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 11

    I need your help again, please.

    Today i got a text message from someone telling me that he is with someone else now, and not to dare come near him. I am so annoyed because i think the woman he is with now went through his phone and got my phone number. I am concerned she will start harrasing me. It's a bit worrying for me because i didn't contact him, nor did he contact me. I got a missed call yesterday with no number, and that might be her. I ignored the text message.

    What should i do? I don't want to contact him, i don't want to contact her either, but i need my peace. I am moving on quite well and i don't need to be harassed.

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    • Bladyn'smommy16
      Veteran Member
      • Feb 2013
      • 618

      Change your number best thing you can do

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      • time2discover
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 323

        If you don't make any contact, this will probably go away.
        If not, Bladyn'smommy16 is right.

        I doubt she'll keep coming after you, if you're not in the picture.

        Had a thought. Could he be using your name to make her jealous and that's where it all started?
        You think?

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        • Bladyn'smommy16
          Veteran Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 618

          I agree with time2 discover only time will tell but if not changing your number would probably be the only thing you can do I don't think you want to confront him. Right?

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          • julia724
            Member
            • Feb 2013
            • 11

            I will not reply, i hope it just goes away.
            Last edited by julia724; 02-14-2013, 04:14 PM.

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            • julia724
              Member
              • Feb 2013
              • 11

              I will ignore it for now, otherwise i guess i'll have to change the number.

              What does she want from me: i walked away, i don't want him and i don't know her. Is she insecure or just wants to intimidate me?

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              • Bladyn'smommy16
                Veteran Member
                • Feb 2013
                • 618

                I would say both insecure and wants to intimidate.

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                • julia724
                  Member
                  • Feb 2013
                  • 11

                  I don't see any reason for which he would use my name to make her jealous, because i went out of the picture when i discovered he is starting to see her. I think she is head over heels with him now and she is afraid i will be back in the picture. I don't know what to think... if he mentioned something to her on purpose about me, and she feels threatened.... maybe he plays her too...
                  I would talk to him if things get worse though.

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                  • Bladyn'smommy16
                    Veteran Member
                    • Feb 2013
                    • 618

                    He's probably playing her. You did say he was a player right? Which means he's a cheater which means he's a loser

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                    • julia724
                      Member
                      • Feb 2013
                      • 11

                      I think you are right. And yes, he is a player. Most probably he is ****ed i called him a liar, so he might be using her to get back at me. Nevertheless it would be a good idea to find out few things about her, to see see who am i dealing with.

                      Originally posted by Bladyn'smommy16
                      He's probably playing her. You did say he was a player right? Which means he's a cheater which means he's a loser

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