[Jade girl]

ok its been just over a month i saw trent on Wednesday night i went over to his place and exhanged clothes and stuff from each others houses he said he regrets treating me that way he just freaked out and wanted the baby was just scared but to me its empty words and he telling me this as it is done as i tried plenty of time to talk about the baby before the abortion and he shut me down everytime and i noticed he hasnt changed hes sleeping around again with i reckon 4 - 5 girls i just laughed i left his house feeling i always have a connection to him but still moving on with my life , so on sunday morning havent seen or talked to trent i start getting nasty msg on facebook from his ex girlfriend who he trying to sort things out with saying how dear i try come between them again and i deserve everything that happened and im a tart and i better watch my back i msg Trent saying sort her out ive done nothing wrong and im trying to move on he said dont reply shes lost it went through his phone and saw the msg for trent to me to come over with the clothes and to chat i just blocked her as i dont want anything to do with her and my abortion is none of her business and ive stayed away from Trent so why she picking on me when hes cheating on her with plenty of other girls just so unfair she would of seen all the msgs from the another girls but decided to pick on me

im now in No contact with trent so i can move on from this and start a brand new life as ive learnt from a mutual friend he said Jade would do anything i ask so that comment has made me realize he never cared about me not as a lover not as a girl he was seeing or even as a friend

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Chalk it down to immaturity and a non-commital guy and look for someone better than him, when you are ready.

I think you handled this beautifully by the way ....

But, I am deeply sorry you went through what you went through... You certainly are not alone.. I imagine if you googled you would find a ton of girls that have been down the exact same road.

You seem very strong, good for you, be proud.

[amy37]

What a douche!
Forget the fact that he wasn't even a good boyfriend, he's not even a good friend! He left you at the moment you needed him the most! Right before the abortion. Guys like this don't care about anyone but themselves.

Do us all a favor Jade Girl and leave him!