I'm curious! I'm not sure how to put in words what I look for, but my wants and needs are completely different.
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Someone with common interestsComment
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First attraction is physical traits that I find pleasing, but that only gets to the next step. The next step is talking about common interests and family. It also includes judging physical responses and reactions to what occurs around them. The thing that really opens the possibility for being a lover is personality. If personalities are compatible then things can move forward. No matter how physically pleasing, no matter how much is in common, no matter if they respond to the world around them in a compatible way; if their personality is not compatible it will be a difficult to impossible relationship.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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When you say Different ?
In what way are you determining " Lover " ?but my wants and needs are completely different.
And in what way do you think you may be different ?
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That is normal. But think of your needs first as they are the necessities to make a good living.Comment
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