[Beba2020]

I joined this site today because I realized that I am not the only one surrounded by crazy people....
I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years and ever since I met his family I have had a life full of problems.
I have been trying to deal with it for a year and a half and I have come to the point that I am breaking down inside.
He is the most wonderful person that I have ever met in my life and the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with. For some reason we can never have any peace, there are constant problems happening ever since I met his brothers crazy girlfriend.
She has managedd to turn our worlds upside down each time with her crazy psycho lies.
She hates me for no reason and is always trying to get us to break up...
and i know that she has had plans to hook my boyfriend up with one of her friends before she even knew who i was.
The story has gotten out of control now because she has managed to turn half of his family against me and I have never done anything wrong.

I do not even know where to start with my story ...I just need some kind of outside advice on the situation because It is really making me sick all of the time.
It has gotten to the point that she was sending people to my work to get some gossip about me and turn everything against me to his parents.
I have no idea what to do...I have even quit my job because Im sooo fed up of this soap opera....

[amom]

Why doesn't your boyfriend lay this problem out to his brother? And fix it.

[kjersi]

i kno

i have the same thing but with my mother in law...my husband thinks its in my head but like whenever we r around her and laughing or playin around or ne thiong like that she will always say something that she know will upset me.....just little things..akward things that my husband says r innocent....like ill kick him in the but or he will me and shes like thats disrespectful...and i shoot back like well we r young..19 and 20 and thats how we have fun..the only answer is .. u of coarse should defend urself but i kno it probably comes off as rude...cuz they r crazy...ur boyfriend needs to be behind u...dont come at him blaming him..sit down talk with him and say this really upsets me....maybe hell understand and back u up or even speak up himself...good luck..anther thing my cuzin always told me to do was kill em with kindness...

[sourpuss]

A: Your boyfriend needs to recognize that there is a problem with her and talk to his brother about it.

B: You need to distance yourself from her as much as possible. Family gatherings are going to be unavoidable but just be nice and don't get caught up in the drama. Anytime you try to go ***-for-tat with someone like her, you will lose.

Can you ask your boyfriends mother out to lunch and just have a girl to girl chat with her to set things straight? Maturity will win you this battle, don't get sucked in to her game.