I'm new here and don't know where to post this, so hopefully I'm in a suitable forum.
I used to be in a long-term, intense relationship with whom might be the only woman I have ever truly loved. We were best friends, and to this day we remain good friends.
We were extremely comfortable with each other very early in our relationship. To write that we shared -and still do- an intense sexual chemistry doesn't come close to describing the intensity of our sexual attraction to one another.
Within a month or so of our relationship we openly and honestly discussed sex and our sexual histories. While she was twice divorced, I know more about her than any man. I always encouraged her to discuss whatever was on her mind, and she knew I would be nonjudgmental about her sexual history. One of the aspects of our relationship was that she is the most sexually experienced and open woman I have even known. She knows what she desires during sex, and she's not reticent about asking for it.
She has always been extremely sexual. Her endocrinologist has diagnosed her as having abnormally high testosterone. Her physician offered to prescribe medicine for her that would bring her testosterone levels to within normal limits. She refused the medicine because she loves sex.
Since she hit puberty, she has been horny. She had sex for her first time at fifteen. Since the first time she had sex she has loved being naked with men. She had a high school friend who was male. She used to sneak him into her bedroom, get naked with him and give him oral sex. A couple years ago we ran into him while dining. That idiot didn't have the courtesy to say hello to her. She is and always has been very good looking and she still has a fantastic body. Because she was good looking and had a great body, she never had difficulty getting male attention while she was in college.
One of the first things she told me when she started dating was that she has always loved to be naked around men. While in college she had sex with one of her boyfriends in a dorm room while another couple was in the same room having sex. It turns her on to be watched by men while having sex. On two other occasions and each time with different boyfriends, she had sex knowing that their male roommates were watching. When we were dating and alone together, she was usually naked. Since she was in high school she has known of the power her naked body has over men.
I'll get to the point. She will go out in public wearing see-through tops that clearly reveal her gorgeous nipples. The first time she did it with me, I told her that her nipples were clearly visible. She acknowledged it and said she didn't care. While eating lunch the first time she wore a see-through top with me, the waiter couldn't stop staring at her breasts, and I couldn't blame him. Her mother has told her to stop wearing see-through tops in public. It even embarrasses her kids. But I know that it turns her on to subtly expose herself to men in public. She craves male attention.
Sometimes before I go to my gym I'll bring breakfast to her. We still have sex, and she has always been very comfortable being naked around me. She still has a very sex body, and she looks terrific naked. This morning she answered the door wearing only an extremely see-through, tight-fitting white t-shirt and sheer shorts that clearly revealed her gorgeous, dark & sexy bush. Her shorts were so short that when she stood up it wasn't too difficult to see her bush from below them. I drank coffee while we talked. She could have been completely naked because what she was wearing revealed her beautiful body. She has large, natural, beautiful breasts. They were clearly visible.
Suddenly there was a knock at the door. She's having the exterior of her home painted. I told her that I'd answer it because of the way she was dressed. She insisted upon answering it. She said she was going to hide behind the door while she talked to the painter. She did stand with her waist behind the door, but her chest was right in front of the painter. He spoke in heavily Spanish-accented broken English, so I couldn't understand what he was saying, but it was obvious that he was making small talk in order to get a good, long look at her breasts. I'm sure that painters knock at her door all day long with specious reasons to talk to her while getting great shots of her breasts and possibly her bush.
Here's what I'm worried about: in California, any public display of nudity is a misdemeanor. Were a person convicted of indecent exposure, it's entirely possible to have to register as a sex offender. I've talked to her about it. Her mother has talked to her about it. And her kids have talked to her about it. She refuses to change. Even when she was my girlfriend, I didn't care if walked around naked all day as long as she had sex with only me. I wouldn't have cared if she had walked around nude in front of a hundred men. I've never had a problem with appropriate nudity.
Obviously men aren't going to complain about checking out a very good looking woman who's virtually naked. However, their wives and girlfriends might. She wears sheer shorts only while at home. But while out in public were a man to check out her nipples and his wife or girlfriend to catch him, she might call the cops. Or were one of her workers talk about the lady who answers her front door wearing see-through clothes and were his wife to overhear, she might call the cops.
What would be the best strategy for moderating her fetish for public displays of nudity? I still care a lot for her, and were I disposed to remarrying I'd probably marry her.
She is the only woman I have ever dated that has this fetish. How common is it? Is she subtly conveying her hyper-sexuality to men when she exposes herself to them?
I used to be in a long-term, intense relationship with whom might be the only woman I have ever truly loved. We were best friends, and to this day we remain good friends.
We were extremely comfortable with each other very early in our relationship. To write that we shared -and still do- an intense sexual chemistry doesn't come close to describing the intensity of our sexual attraction to one another.
Within a month or so of our relationship we openly and honestly discussed sex and our sexual histories. While she was twice divorced, I know more about her than any man. I always encouraged her to discuss whatever was on her mind, and she knew I would be nonjudgmental about her sexual history. One of the aspects of our relationship was that she is the most sexually experienced and open woman I have even known. She knows what she desires during sex, and she's not reticent about asking for it.
She has always been extremely sexual. Her endocrinologist has diagnosed her as having abnormally high testosterone. Her physician offered to prescribe medicine for her that would bring her testosterone levels to within normal limits. She refused the medicine because she loves sex.
Since she hit puberty, she has been horny. She had sex for her first time at fifteen. Since the first time she had sex she has loved being naked with men. She had a high school friend who was male. She used to sneak him into her bedroom, get naked with him and give him oral sex. A couple years ago we ran into him while dining. That idiot didn't have the courtesy to say hello to her. She is and always has been very good looking and she still has a fantastic body. Because she was good looking and had a great body, she never had difficulty getting male attention while she was in college.
One of the first things she told me when she started dating was that she has always loved to be naked around men. While in college she had sex with one of her boyfriends in a dorm room while another couple was in the same room having sex. It turns her on to be watched by men while having sex. On two other occasions and each time with different boyfriends, she had sex knowing that their male roommates were watching. When we were dating and alone together, she was usually naked. Since she was in high school she has known of the power her naked body has over men.
I'll get to the point. She will go out in public wearing see-through tops that clearly reveal her gorgeous nipples. The first time she did it with me, I told her that her nipples were clearly visible. She acknowledged it and said she didn't care. While eating lunch the first time she wore a see-through top with me, the waiter couldn't stop staring at her breasts, and I couldn't blame him. Her mother has told her to stop wearing see-through tops in public. It even embarrasses her kids. But I know that it turns her on to subtly expose herself to men in public. She craves male attention.
Sometimes before I go to my gym I'll bring breakfast to her. We still have sex, and she has always been very comfortable being naked around me. She still has a very sex body, and she looks terrific naked. This morning she answered the door wearing only an extremely see-through, tight-fitting white t-shirt and sheer shorts that clearly revealed her gorgeous, dark & sexy bush. Her shorts were so short that when she stood up it wasn't too difficult to see her bush from below them. I drank coffee while we talked. She could have been completely naked because what she was wearing revealed her beautiful body. She has large, natural, beautiful breasts. They were clearly visible.
Suddenly there was a knock at the door. She's having the exterior of her home painted. I told her that I'd answer it because of the way she was dressed. She insisted upon answering it. She said she was going to hide behind the door while she talked to the painter. She did stand with her waist behind the door, but her chest was right in front of the painter. He spoke in heavily Spanish-accented broken English, so I couldn't understand what he was saying, but it was obvious that he was making small talk in order to get a good, long look at her breasts. I'm sure that painters knock at her door all day long with specious reasons to talk to her while getting great shots of her breasts and possibly her bush.
Here's what I'm worried about: in California, any public display of nudity is a misdemeanor. Were a person convicted of indecent exposure, it's entirely possible to have to register as a sex offender. I've talked to her about it. Her mother has talked to her about it. And her kids have talked to her about it. She refuses to change. Even when she was my girlfriend, I didn't care if walked around naked all day as long as she had sex with only me. I wouldn't have cared if she had walked around nude in front of a hundred men. I've never had a problem with appropriate nudity.
Obviously men aren't going to complain about checking out a very good looking woman who's virtually naked. However, their wives and girlfriends might. She wears sheer shorts only while at home. But while out in public were a man to check out her nipples and his wife or girlfriend to catch him, she might call the cops. Or were one of her workers talk about the lady who answers her front door wearing see-through clothes and were his wife to overhear, she might call the cops.
What would be the best strategy for moderating her fetish for public displays of nudity? I still care a lot for her, and were I disposed to remarrying I'd probably marry her.
She is the only woman I have ever dated that has this fetish. How common is it? Is she subtly conveying her hyper-sexuality to men when she exposes herself to them?
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