[hot amy]

What rcoreyus said. ^ Leave now, today. If a guy hits you once, he'll hit you again. That's why the very first hit in any relationship should be a deal-breaker for anyone. Sorry nilaporajita, but you have to woman up and get yourself out.

I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been going through. Yes, as watchmans moon states ‘you are a victim of domestic abuse, and your husband is a chronic abuser. You've already told him to stop many times, and he's clearly not stopping.’ No one should ever have to put up with violent abuse. Any relationship of this nature is not worth this. To knock the hell out of a woman, or indeed a man is totally wrong.
moderniste put it better than I could have done, it is the children who are significant part of this relationship, and it is not right that any children should be experiencing this. All the advice given on this thread I totally agree with and as the quote says he will do it again. You deserve better than this nilaporajita, there are many good men around I wish you all the best.

[KathrynEWyant]

Your spouse is an irate man and he is furious at you and the more that you are staying home and he is meeting expectations, then prepare to be blown away. He will proceed to be the way he is and he is set to take out his displeasure on you. Initially was the arm, next it will be in the face.

What's more with him working at home in some cases and seeing you getting up around 10 or thereabouts each morning, yes he is irate.

I might be out there meeting expectations. I might be attempting to get myself together and attempting to get my own particular cash.

A few mens don't give a second thought assuming that you are discourage. A few mens don't even give a second thought what your issues are. They simply in some cases just thinks about there selfess self.

When you got into the bunk with him the previous evening, when he began making developments to you for sex, you might as well of punch him in the arm (3 or 4 times) and when he said what is that for, you might as well of let him know that you imagined that was a foreplay that he did a few evenings ago.

[jns]

nilaporajita, any updates? I hope you have been able to stop the abuse one way or another.

[anamikagupta]

Dear friend its unbearable and shocking . I can`t accept domestic violence.

[waynebarnett847]

It's not an healthy marriage. He always hurting you again and again, he is not a good husband. Leave him now, you need to protect yourself from him. You have kids though you don't have good relationship with them. Start living with your kids.

[Motorguy]

Hi All,
Just wanted to hear your opinion..I was a widow for few years then i got married again after dating for a year. I have kids from my first marriage but they started hating my husband as well as me although that time i didn't understand why then we moved to the city where mom lives and kids were staying with my mother. I thought it would be the best and with time things will get better. After that i have been getting a bit upset as kids were going far from me, My husband was ok at the beginning but then he started hitting me whenever me whenever he got angry. Few days back my husband had an argument with my best friend and she was upset at him and me and i charged my husband why is he doing this to all my relationships and then he started hitting me again. Although i have warned him several times that no matter what he should not hit me. This relationship is getting hard on me. I dont know what to do.
Please help me with your comments should I leave him?
- Aporajita

Call the cops and have this guy arrest for spouses abuse you should never allow a man to ever hit you period Aporajita. There's never a reason to hit your wife, girl friend or a women for that matter if ever. I wouldn't wait till the next time for your husband to hit you leave now period file for divorce and get out he will never change. You had change your whole life for this man who i believe is scum of the earth to ever hit a women period. The next time you may not be so lucky because each time he could be more violent. But you need to make this decision but what I read you are saying get out now there's is in many counties in the U.S they have women crisis center for abused women call them they can help file a RO against your husband if he bails out.Good luck in your quest to get out of this abusive marriage.God bless you.