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  • ChristinaHumphries1996
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2014
    • 8

    This girl needs someone to listen to her

    There is the guy I just met he was all sweet posting stud on fb about me (he never mentioned my name in the post) but he was talking all sweet and stuff to me and then few days later he started to just reply with "lol" "Ikr" or "haha" but however he still called me baby and stuff like that and I though we had something going bc he even asked me If I would possibly consider going out with him. But out I the blue one day he was all the sudden in a relationship... I'm lost and it comes as a shock to me that he sounded that into me and then just stops talkin to me!!! I'm heart broken and don't know what to do
  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    Just cry it out hon. Nothing you can do to 'fix' heartbreak, it's not really rational so there's no talking yourself out of it. It'll go away tho, trust me. It always does.

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    • ChristinaHumphries1996
      Junior Member
      • Jan 2014
      • 8

      Oh yea and to top it off I was trying to be friends with him and he asked for a full body pic and I said don't u have a gf and he said yes. I didn't txt him back bc it's wrong of him to do that to her

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        He sounds like he is trying to be a player.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • jen1447
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2013
          • 2380

          People reap what they sow. This guy will either end up alone for most of his life or saddled with superficial and ultimately unfulfilling relationships. In that context, 'players' are actually kinda pathetic.

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          • cathy23
            Member
            • Oct 2011
            • 69

            I know it may suck now but he's probably done you a favor., -You can do without this crap.

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            • Archer
              Banned
              • Mar 2014
              • 121

              There's a ton of possibilities here. He might have just ended up in a relationship with someone who may have had a head start on you (had known him longer) or just plain clicked with him more. The only thing you know is that he considers you available whenever and however he wants you for some reason.

              He's obviously not that great, and obviously a player/cheater. Forget about him.

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