[bienvenotto]

Hi everyone,

My girlfriend started to do bass guitar classes. She started like 4 months ago. Everything is fine and she seems very happy with her new learning. I like to see her that way and is pretty cool that she is lively.
But one thing I noticed is that 'how wonderful is her teacher'. He's a guy 10 years older than her and good looking. She is always praising him in our conversations. And when I mean she is praising him, I mean a lot.

Shall I be concerned about it? Or maybe I'm just a little insecure?

(I'm the same guy who created another thread speaking how I would like to do a threesome with her and another man, but the circunstances here are different. This can envolve a lot more feelings here than in the other subject.)

[DreamP346]

She may have a crush on her teacher. It's pretty normal. More than likely it will fade. I would only be concerned if you think you girlfriend is the cheating type. If that is the case, then it doesn't matter about the teacher or anybody else, she will cheat. But if you trust her, a little crush won't do any harm.

[CrystalMinds]

I agree with sp346. It could be because to her he's the "cool musician guy that plays a guitar" and that creates a bit of an attraction. If she ignores it, it's fine. If you're bothered by it, maybe let her know that you don't like it when she's always praising him. A little jealousy can be quite cute.

[Patti-here]

I had a crush on my first Ski instructor, it was meaningless, all girls go through a phase like that.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I can see why you wouldn't want a threesome with this guy, so just stick with that. I doubt you would have anything to worry about on his side, if he's good looking and 10 years older than most of his students you can bet he's aware and has a lot of girls that have a crush on him. It's natural, as he in their eyes is good at what he does, they are learning, he's older and good looking.

Don't sweat it. But, you really should laugh with her "at her". "So you've got a crush on him don't you" and smile. Catching them out without it bothering you, showing it doesn't bother you, makes you an awesome boyfriend and confident.