[sweet_peaa]

I worked with some guy over 2 years and he has a babies momma but always on and off and eventually we started becoming friends with benefits! And boy we hit it off strong! We still had a great friendship connection! But eventually died down when I stopped working there! Then I seen him with his little son at the park by his house and he couldn't stop talking to me And asking me questions! Like if I still live in the same spot... Then I went to the park by my house and guess who ended up showing up there! My old Friends with benefits !! I was with my babies father and he was with some girl! But right away parks by my car gets off tells me hi how have I been?? My daughter got big! All well with his new chick!(who's just staring by the way) then he sees my babies dad and tries to ask him if he and I want to come over and have a beer! Which my baby dad was smart enough to say no thanks (my baby dad knows me And him use to have a strong past!) So anyways him and that chick sit really close by us and he just stating at me And my baby dad and he kept trying to invite us over but we just told him no thanks! I'm so confused because I feel he went to the park to see me on purpose what do you think? I really did like him a lot and I know he liked me I think we both didn't expect to end when it did do u think he still has feelings for me and thats why he showed up at the park right by my house??? I know he has plenty of parks by his house... But then why would he bring some girl ??

[Something_Awesome]

I have a lot I can say on the matter... some of it is philosophical and I think it may help you... Argh but I can't right now. I am on my phone which makes it worse. Will respond tonight.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think we should leave this thread for now until you answer your other thread, pertaining to whether this is safe for you to write what you are writing without your child's Father reading any of this.

[Something_Awesome]

Sweet Pea, are you looking for a freinds-with benefits type thing with him again or are interested in a relationship with him? And who was the girl? Was it like his sister or a girlfriend/significant other?

[Motorguy]

I worked with some guy over 2 years and he has a babies momma but always on and off and eventually we started becoming friends with benefits! And boy we hit it off strong! We still had a great friendship connection! But eventually died down when I stopped working there! Then I seen him with his little son at the park by his house and he couldn't stop talking to me And asking me questions! Like if I still live in the same spot... Then I went to the park by my house and guess who ended up showing up there! My old Friends with benefits !! I was with my babies father and he was with some girl! But right away parks by my car gets off tells me hi how have I been?? My daughter got big! All well with his new chick!(who's just staring by the way) then he sees my babies dad and tries to ask him if he and I want to come over and have a beer! Which my baby dad was smart enough to say no thanks (my baby dad knows me And him use to have a strong past!) So anyways him and that chick sit really close by us and he just stating at me And my baby dad and he kept trying to invite us over but we just told him no thanks! I'm so confused because I feel he went to the park to see me on purpose what do you think? I really did like him a lot and I know he liked me I think we both didn't expect to end when it did do u think he still has feelings for me and thats why he showed up at the park right by my house??? I know he has plenty of parks by his house... But then why would he bring some girl ??

Sweet pea, you just need to let this lie and stay away. It's pretty obvious he's not over you or he would have never came to your area to check out the park you go to. I sense your man knows there maybe some sparks still with this FWB guy so why put a nail between you and your man over some cheap thrill sex. This former FWB was just showing off his girl friend to you that he can still get the women and try to make you jealous in returns and looks like it worked. My subjected say away you probably have many friends and you don't need him to fulfill yourself you have your daughter and man to fulfill your life be happy with that and don't ruin that.

[sweet_peaa]

He's a Virgo so I know he the jealous type too ! Why would he bring his new chick over by my house if he still liked me or wanted to have a relationship ??

[sweet_peaa]

thinking of him

I have a lot I can say on the matter... some of it is philosophical and I think it may help you... Argh but I can't right now. I am on my phone which makes it worse. Will respond tonight.

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[Something_Awesome]

??????!!!!

Please answer my follow up question

I'll give you a short answer... If you are looking to be in a relationship with this guy, I'd say stay far away.

[sweet_peaa]

The girl I think was his lady because she was just staring at me or a girl he's dating that obiviously didn't know are past!.. Noon I'm not looking for a relationship with him... Well at least I don't think

[Something_Awesome]

What does he want? Because in all honesty, he's not going about this gracefully. If he is trying to get in a relationship with you, then the two of you should talk in private. If one member of a couple finds someone that is best for them, he/she should end their current relationship and get with the new person (unless the original couple is already married). Two people that are the best for eachother should not be kept from being together simply because one of them already has a girlfriend. It will sting for the party being dumped, but two people should not be less happy by being kept away from each other because another wants to be a party pooper.

Now, the way he is going about this is very distasteful. If he wants to fool around with you, why the heck is he bringing his GF around so she can watch him flirt? If he is trying to pursue a relationship with you, then why not do it when his GF is not around? He is trampling all over his current GF. He's got no respect and I don't think he will show any to you in the long run.

If you just want FWB then I guess that's up to you. You'd probably be doing his current GF a favor if she ends up finding out and leaving him.