[Lovcookie]

a high level of lust? I think lust in your relationship is healthy. Others would disagree. We both openly admit we find the other extremely sexy and that sex is huge in the relationship. That "lust" fuels passion and passion keeps a relationship strong. How is it for you in your relationship?

[Elena_EvilEye]

Yes definitely, there is a fair bit of passion and lust in my marriage and we've been married for 8 years. I say to him that he is sexy and a stud. And he frequently says to me that I am sexy and attractive. I crave his hairy rugby player's legs and he loves my body generally but he loves my *** in particular (what is it with men and butts), he loves my *** so much that he taps/pats/grab/squeezes it and I actually like it even when he does it discretely in public it turns me on in a very strange way. I go crazy when he puts his hand on my *** cheek and squeezes it 3 times he is essentially telling me he wants to have sex , I know some women don't like it and I do it back to him. I think he does it to show affection, sexual attraction, be playful, to unconciously mark his territory to other guys saying "THIS *** IS OCCUPIED!"

Sex is an important part of our relationship we make love on average around 3-4 times a week. To spicen things up in the bedroom we play sex games, I wear lingerie ( I work in a lingerie store and already a lingerie enthusiast so I have a huge collection to choose from) and I sometimes give him a striptease and a lap dance. We try to keep things exciting as I think Lust and a healthy sex life can add to the emotional love you have for each other and keep your realtionship strong.

What do you do to keep the sex exciting?

[jen1447]

I'm not sure regular love always results in hot sex. (Nice cuddle time and all that, sure.) You have to have some amount of lust in order to get a little crazy, and crazy equals passion, which equals great sex. I'm not sure I'd really want to jump anyone I didn't lust for. (And yes I do lust for my BF/GFs - in different ways but lust is lust.)

[Something_Awesome]

Yes there is lust... Especially on the part of my GF. Her lust quadruples when Brazil beats Croatia 3-1 in a World Cup match

[Elena_EvilEye]

I'm not a big fan of football unlike my hubby but I'm hoping England will win tonight as it will put him in the mood. My lust will explode If Portugal win their games since I am of Portuguese stock. Fingers crossed England and Portugal will go far in the world cup.

[Patti-here]

I'm not a big fan of football unlike my hubby but I'm hoping England will win tonight as it will put him in the mood. My lust will explode If Portugal win their games since I am of Portuguese stock. Fingers crossed England and Portugal will go far in the world cup.

I guess your talking about 'Soccer" ? I'm not a fan, I love 'American football though' I was watching a Soccer team from 'Liverpool' though, I'm very good friends with a man from England, so he got me watching it, I don't understand it that much though, It's kinda slow for my liking... but GOooo England !!!

[Elena_EvilEye]

You Americans stole the name Football from us LOL. My hubby supports Manchester United and therefore he hates Liverpool. I am more of a tennis, golf and volleyball kind of girl but I do support the Portuguese National team and I'm only enthusiastic over the world cup as it will mean more fun in the bedroom if both teams win . It is a chore for me to watch it with my hubby and I tend to focus on which player has the best legs rather than the game itself.

My hubby has a New York Giants Jersey and I sometimes wear it around the house even though it nearly reaches my knees because of the fact my hubby is quite tall and a big guy.

[Patti-here]

You Americans stole the name Football from us LOL. My hubby supports Manchester United and therefore he hates Liverpool. I am more of a tennis, golf and volleyball kind of girl but I do support the Portuguese National team and I'm only enthusiastic over the world cup as it will mean more fun in the bedroom if both teams win . It is a chore for me to watch it with my hubby and I tend to focus on which player has the best legs rather than the game itself.

My hubby has a New York Giants Jersey and I sometimes wear it around the house even though it nearly reaches my knees because of the fact my hubby is quite tall and a big guy.

LOL,, guess we did steal the name, our 'Football' really has little to do with 'football' I'm a ski freak myself

[Lovcookie]

Now back to the topic of lust lol.

I enjoy both types of Football. Going to watch the rest of England Italy in a few moments

Today, she was taking in some sun in her bikini. The lust was flowing in my veins lol. Something about her skin especially with a tan, her legs drive me wild. They are not skinny or even slim. They got shape and muscle mass. Her curvy hips I was tracing every inch. Anytime she wears shorts or mini skirt I got to control myself lol. She gets active after a few drinks. Seems like with some people alcohol increases lust. Not true for me. I like to suddenly surprise her with no warning. I would have today but a guest of the house still home made me think twice lol. I would have surprised the girl friend in the back yard.

Back to the game

[Lovcookie]

England always disappoints. Seems like they never have enough offensive talent to get the job done. Glad to see they have some new younger players this time. The squad did look better.

Elena= Yes, butts too, men love a nice butt on a woman. I squeeze my GF butt all the time. 95% of the time she loves it.

After a workout I seem to have a new kind of energy that needs releasing .

Yeh,cuddling, hand holding stuff is great but a relationship has got to have that raw strong attraction and desire to get physical or something very important in life is missing. I am thankful I have it in my relationship.