[supermomgonecrazy]

My first real relationship I married the man and he ended up cheating. I left him only to return to try to work things out. Needless to say they did not work out. I met another man while I was going to nail school. We became good friends and then I got pregnant with his child. I have 2 children not by him and 1 with him. We have been together for about 10 years. It has been a rocky relationship. We were fighting all the time. He went to Cali. to meet a sister he had never met before and I went out with friends. We were all drunk and I ended making out with someone. We almost screwed. He almost got it in until I realized I was making a BIG mistake. I never told my man. I felt awful. Then about a month ago one of my so called friends told my man. It was hard for me at first I denided it. Then about an hour later I finally admitted to it. He was mad and humiliated which I can understand. He told me we could go to counseling and try to work it out. Is he ****** for giving me another chance? I really would never do anything again. I never have before thats why I cant understand why I would do it to him. Help me.

[C]

My first real relationship I married the man and he ended up cheating. I left him only to return to try to work things out. Needless to say they did not work out. I met another man while I was going to nail school. We became good friends and then I got pregnant with his child. I have 2 children not by him and 1 with him. We have been together for about 10 years. It has been a rocky relationship. We were fighting all the time. He went to Cali. to meet a sister he had never met before and I went out with friends. We were all drunk and I ended making out with someone. We almost screwed. He almost got it in until I realized I was making a BIG mistake. I never told my man. I felt awful. Then about a month ago one of my so called friends told my man. It was hard for me at first I denided it. Then about an hour later I finally admitted to it. He was mad and humiliated which I can understand. He told me we could go to counseling and try to work it out. Is he ****** for giving me another chance? I really would never do anything again. I never have before thats why I cant understand why I would do it to him. Help me.

I have read your post three times and try as I may I cannot find the words "love or passion" for your man.....Where is the love in this relationship?....I see a friend but nothing about lover's....Friends do not have babies and stay together 10 years unless there is something deeper that you are not owning up to......

You probably did this because you wanted to.....Maybe punishing him for going or else maybe pushing your flirting to the limit but.....Something pulled you back.......Now honey, it is up to you to find out.....He sounds like a good man to me....Much luck...

[supermomgonecrazy]

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I have read your post three times and try as I may I cannot find the words "love or passion" for your man.....Where is the love in this relationship?....I see a friend but nothing about lover's....Friends do not have babies and stay together 10 years unless there is something deeper that you are not owning up to......

You probably did this because you wanted to.....Maybe punishing him for going or else maybe pushing your flirting to the limit but.....Something pulled you back.......Now honey, it is up to you to find out.....He sounds like a good man to me....Much luck...

There is a lot of love for my man and passion. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He is a very good man. I am lucky to have him. Thank you for your reply. I need all the suggestions or answers I can get. Maybe it was pushing my flirting to the limit I dont know. This sister he went to meet was adopted out by his mom as a baby. He finally found her. They started talking on the computer and EVERY SINGLE night on the phone for hours until the wee morning. I checked his emails and some of the things they would write sounded to me like an insest thing. I could have been taking it the wrong way though. And then I would read about bad stuff he would write about me. It was all very hard. I wanted him to have his sister so I told him to leave me out of all of it. And Then his mom started emailing the sister and talking **** too. It very well could be that I wanted to punish him for going. And then it all turns out that his sister started talking **** about his mom so they stopped talking. I do hope that couseling helps us. Thanks for you support.

[C]

There is a lot of love for my man and passion. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He is a very good man. I am lucky to have him. Thank you for your reply. I need all the suggestions or answers I can get. Maybe it was pushing my flirting to the limit I dont know. This sister he went to meet was adopted out by his mom as a baby. He finally found her. They started talking on the computer and EVERY SINGLE night on the phone for hours until the wee morning. I checked his emails and some of the things they would write sounded to me like an insest thing. I could have been taking it the wrong way though. And then I would read about bad stuff he would write about me. It was all very hard. I wanted him to have his sister so I told him to leave me out of all of it. And Then his mom started emailing the sister and talking **** too. It very well could be that I wanted to punish him for going. And then it all turns out that his sister started talking **** about his mom so they stopped talking. I do hope that couseling helps us. Thanks for you support.

Watch your back and protect you and your children......He must love you 100% and taking on the problems of his family is not the best thing for a relationship that you want to work. I, too, hope that counseling does help both of you. Take care and I wish you well....C