[littlegirllost]

I talk to the bus driver on my bus every day and we are now on a first name basis. He smiles at me a lot and looks me right in the eye (when he's supposed to be driving...by the way). We talk every day about our jobs, the weather, pets and family. We laugh a lot at silly things, too. How do I know if he is interested romantically? How do I know if he likes me or if he's just a friendly guy? He is very cute and has the most beautiful eyes. What should I do next?

He doesn't wear a wedding ring and has never mentioned having a girlfriend.

Could he be my soulmate????????????????

Would appreciate any feedback. Thanx.

[sourpuss]

I don't know about your 'soulmate' but if you are interested you should ask him out. If you are too shy to come straight out and ask then try to feel him out. On a Thursday ask him what his plans are for the weekend. If there is a movie you've been wanting to see ask if he's seen it and mention that you may go see it, stuff like that.

[littlegirllost]

But what if he's not interested and he doesn't talk to me again????

[sourpuss]

Well, that's a risk you have to take.
If you don't act on the things in life you really want because the possibility of future disappointment then you'll never do anything.
If he's interested then great, if not he'll most likely be flattered and continue to be your friend. It will all depend on how you react if you are turned down.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

WOMEN of the world. We have the courage to do the asking but never easy hey...

What about suttle approach. You talk all the time about lots of subjects.

So, talk about movies, mention that you haven't been to one in a long time, as your single, but would love to see..... what ever is showing.

By doing this, you are telling him "your single" not dating anyone and giving him the room to say, actually i wanted to see that film to and go into casually arranging it with you, with out asking you out or him you.

If he doesn't, it would not be because he doesn't like the movie. They will sit through anything to get the chance to date a woman they like.

But, either he is married and is flirtacious and is enjoying it, ego, or in a relationship, or loves chatting as driving is boring, and finds you great to talk to, and isn't aware you like him, or there are lots of reasons.

But that way, you walk away saving "face' and knowing....

Just a thought.