[DCarr]

I am 21, my boyfriend is 29. I am currently unemployed and spending time with my boyfriend and his family.

My problem is that, he believes he is the most experienced person in the WWW and most times i feel ****** because of that.

scenario - I love sex..... and he repeatedly says that he is a freak. he would masturbate often. I have been at his house for 3 weeks and we only had sex 6 times. when i tell him about it he would say that i am a sexaholic and i like sex too much.

Usually, when i talk about sex, he would say that he does not have the energy to have sex. and goes as far as saying that he hopes that i don't leave him because of that. Bu i would never.

This morning, i spoke to him. I told him that it has been 3 nights since we had sex and i am as horny as can be. All he told me is that he believes we are sexually incompatible.

I don't get it. am i the one with the problem here?

[rcoreyus]

People have a wide range of desires for sex. Neither of you is likely to change. You need to decide if you are willing to live with the amount of sex he wants, or if you need to find someone else.

[Schnazzy]

his desires are clearly less than yours, nothing wrong with either of you, my advice would be to meet halfway. if he hasn't got the energy to have sex (and i am assuming here he refers to penetration as having sex) perhaps he could engage with you otherwise, perhaps stimulate your nipples or whatever turns you on, and watch you masturbate, and hey... if he watches he might suddenly find the energy after all.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I would be insulted...

There is also the possibility that you are living in his house, with his parents from what i read? For three weeks.

Maybe, he is not comfortable with having sex with you whilst his mum and dad are in the house?

But to say your not sexually compatible and hope you don't leave me over this, is a bit rough and quite frankly rude, i would feel devastated at the comment and question the love, over the "leave me bit".

Or, he likes to "do the talk but not walk the walk".

Perhaps, you really need to consider what you love about him, and maybe write a list, of the pros and cons and seriously look at it....