[NEgirl]

One of my best friends has dated a guy for a year and some and it is her first partner and love but he is a phyco. doesn't let her have friends, slaps her and i am sure would hit her worse if she did block him, and i KNOW cheats and she does too.He thinks he can talk his way oput of anything but i can see right though it. she finds text from girls that say "i miss cuddling" and "wish u were in the shower with me" but still can't find the heart to leave and has told me she just really cares about him and doesn't want to be lonly and some i think is afraid of him. after hearing about it and keep encouraging her to leave him she doesn't and after the last time of hearing about another cheating text and she didn't leave him i am fed up and want to give up should I?

[sourpuss]

Just be there for her. Let her know how you feel about him and that you think she needs to leave him. Be sure she knows that you will be there for her when she finally does leave him. I think that's all you can do. She has to reach a point where she is ready to get out.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Just be there for her. Let her know how you feel about him and that you think she needs to leave him. Be sure she knows that you will be there for her when she finally does leave him. I think that's all you can do. She has to reach a point where she is ready to get out.

Friends, you can count on your fingers and your obviously one to her, i contratulate you and to pose the question seeking more answers.

But, there is no answer. She knows the answer but remains in the relationship.

I will not going into the "whys" but remember you are a different person to her and on the outside of this relationship.

One day she will have enough and walk, then hold her hand and be there again.