[janieg]

After a truly awful year with my husband, no sex, fall outs every other week, I came home to find him in bed with his secretary. His only defense was "can I blame him"

I stormed out then realised I had nowhere to go, and almost no money as he manages all that side of the relationship. I ended up at my daughter's flat. We don't get on, she's an evil ***** of a daughter that's always been a daddy's girl, she's made it clear who's side she was on in past months. I had no other choice but to stay with her, sleeping on her sofa bed.

The flat is small, one bedroom, she live with her husband, and it was him that said she need to let me stay, she wasn't happy about it. I agreed to find a job and another place as soon as I could. She's been tying to force me out since, putting on inappropriate movies and adult movies in the evening to get a reaction out of me. She's twisted and doesn't hold back when her husband is out.

A few weeks ago I came out the shower to find more porn on tv, some small girl servicing 4 big men. I was surprised when I saw only the husband was in. He quickly turned it off and apologised. He said they had a special arrangement about it. That got me curious, and I continued like a concerned mother would be. Turns out missy wont do oral, anal, or unprotected sex, so he's allowed to watch that and get relief that way. I told him not to be concerned as these actors are not real in what they do or even size, to which he replied that's not quite true, he's bigger than most. I told him to stop bragging and it turned out he is about 9 to 10 inches in size.

My husband was barely 4 inches, I had to see, after much cajoling I got him to show me. It was beautiful and monstrous. I decided there and then I wanted it. Before he could object I went down on him, it's been a few years since college days, some things are not forgotten. Twice more I've done it full depth and last time I teased him by rubbing the end of it over my *** and ***** while straddling his lap.

My problem is how to proceed next. Do I left him have my ****? or tell him he can have it if he leave *****face? or arrange it so she catches s doing it?
I'm not letting go of him, wasted on that evil little goody twoshoes. How best to get him and kick her out?

[jns]

This sounds like it should be on Jerry Springer. What does he want, janie?

[Motorguy]

Janieg this is your daughter husband oh god this to me is unforgettable act. I agree with JNS this is a show for Jerry Springer. Well let's see maybe go out and find your own man other then this you better hope your daughter doesn't find out. I say be a real mom and leave her flat and get your own place plus leave her husband alone geez. I finally seen and heard it all. All I can say good luck for the complete family.

[Claret]

I'm sorry, I really think you are shallow and a skank. Your daughter appears to have had your number quite some time ago. Why don't you do everyone a favour, get out of this situation as gracefully as you can and leave them be. Motorguy you are bang on - an "unforgettable act". Also an unforgiveable act.

[Claret]

Also, I'm calling troll on this post . . . she doesn't work yet came to find him with his secretary???? He really must have wanted to get caught.

[janieg]

Your daughter appears to have had your number quite some time ago.

You know nothing of how evil she is. I don't even want to go into what damage she has done in the past to our family. Poetic justice here now! As for my waste of space husband, I think it was set up for me to catch him, out the blue my daughter bumped into me and gave me a list home ahead of when I normally get home.

jns, motorguy, I have gone through this in my head, and only want advice on how to continue. No need for the moral lecture.

[Claret]

No matter what my daughter may have done in life, no matter who she may have hurt, no matter what circumstances led me and her to a nasty position in life -- I may not like the things she has done -- but I'd always love her and continue to want the best for her - NO MATTER WHAT.

[jns]

What does your daughter's husband want? Or is he just a throw away toy?

[Motorguy]

You know nothing of how evil she is. I don't even want to go into what damage she has done in the past to our family. Poetic justice here now! As for my waste of space husband, I think it was set up for me to catch him, out the blue my daughter bumped into me and gave me a list home ahead of when I normally get home.

jns, motorguy, I have gone through this in my head, and only want advice on how to continue. No need for the moral lecture.

I have to agree with Claret on this topic. No matter what your daughter, did that you feel was so bad towards you. Then you would have sex with her husband kinda of a pay back to her is not right in my book ever but childish on your part. My wife and four daughters a long with my grand daughters are my life. They are not perfect but myself and my wife would never do something like this to them. So you can get back at them for something so minor. I think you need to either get away from your daughter and her husband. So you don't have these feeling any more towards your daughter's husband that you would will have sex with him behind your daughters back. Just because he told you she doesn't do certain things in bedroom. My feeling is its really not your business what they do in there bedroom you are her mother not get girl friend. This is my opinion on what I would do Janieg, or you will ruin your relationship with your daughter forever so good luck and God bless you.

[atskitty2]

Doesn't matter how evil she is, this is about you now.

If you only want advice about what to do next, I think you should be finding another place to stay, and in the meantime, staying away from them as much as possible until you can move out.
You may find some advice on how to win his attention here, but I doubt many will support your plight.