[Ray95]

I'm just so hurt!!! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years now. We have a beautiful 5 month little girl together. I just caught him on POF dating app talking dirty to other women. When I confronted him he turned it on me about how poor pitiful him. I love this man more than life, but we have dealt with this before. Its not as simple as leaving because I have no where to go and to take my daughter. His family would just love to find me unstable and take my child. He says he is sorry, but I just don't know what to do. I'm so hurt and I want to work it out, but how do you get past this. There's been a pretty big background but I've always forgived him but now I've got to be a role model so I just am super clueless..

[jns]

Welcome to WH! What do you mean about having nowhere to go?

[Maisie Dayz]

Sounds like he's only sorry because he's been caught! You need to stop forgiving him.
As the saying goes "When a man deceives me once, it is his fault; when twice, it is mine.”
Don't you have family who can help you?

[Soulbender]

The struggle is real...sometimes family can't help... remember your roots...your a strong g women to even accept what's happening...if you are going to forgive than for give for yourself , pick your self up and don't forget what happened. You will be fine ..one step at a time.

[Popcorn&Candy]

I have to agree: he's only saying sorry because he's been caught. That sounds awful, but it's true. It does sound like your relationship is damaged now and little will repair it. I can't say what you should do but stay true to what your gut is telling you. If you have to, you and your daughter can make it without him.