[CHANDLERS WISH]

Pffft (in honor of you) you took off the part about me giving you a headache...meanie. Lol!

giggle, giggle I thought it was funny at the time, as a joke but then thought oh what if you think I'm serious?

BD, I think it was deliberate but I think, that it was way past her intentions, rather that Aunty or, that Aunty has so put so much carp into your Grandma's head about "Grandpa" and the fight if you will of what occured re hospitalisation that she had no choice, as Grandma was invited...

See it may have been a while ago, but it was a battle, argumentative over the situation and those people would have been at the party...People don't forget and that Aunty got her way, I'm betting she got her way here as well...

Now you hold a party and don't invite them, now I'm Just kidding.....

[Ashlee T.]

Yeah....meh...I'm over it. It usually doesn't take me long to get past the "I'm hurt by this" stage. It was ugly, rude, inconsiderate, thoughtless, hurtful, etc etc etc......there's no way around that. But I don't think I'll dignify it by letting it cause me one more second of grief.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I always think this.

Don't give people what they wantUnless off course, you want to give it....

[Texinator]

Even though BD is one of the most caring and giving people I know, in this case I also don't think she should "give" anybody satisfaction by giving it another thought.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Then we both agree that giving isn't worth giving because she shouldn't give it another given thought after all she'd be giving them what they want and even though she is a giving type person, well she just shouldn't give a and in that .........she can go give something nice to someone else

[Texinator]

That's... wait, what? LOL

Seriously though, BD, it's their loss for not having you at the party.

[jns]

You done your best to get your story out. Sometimes it is best to absorb slings and arrows without too much protest to get along with others.