[ladyv]

Thanks, thats some real helpful advice.Ive already started trying these ideas.As Rachel stated it is really hard because no one wants to play the fool but I do want to trust him.However, its like everytime I overlook things that would normally bother me he makes it worse.For instance, he'll talk about this woman on his job constantly knowing how it makes me feel so I just ignore it and change the subject then he'll say something else as if he's TRYING to make me jealous or something so its gets me all in bunch again.However, I hear what you guys are saying which is really good advice so Ill try it.Oh and about the watching porn with him.Before we married I told him that I would start watching porn with him so he dont have to hide it but he refused saying"why would you open a door Im trying to close" he said that him watching porn was embarrasing but it was an addiction that he dont want anymore.Believe me guys I think Ive tried it all but Ill try giving him his space AGAIN and see if its successful this time.