[Searching_82]

I have made up my mind and feel that divorce would be the best thing for me right now. Between what has gone on between myself and him, as well as how I was feeling before during and now after the wedding...I think all signs point to me being alone and working on ME (wow it feels so weird saying that..focussing on me...I'm actually very excited)

My question is how should I prepare? I will probably be filing in the next few months. I don't want to jump the gun but I do want to start to prepare myself financially and otherwise for what is about to happen.

How does this usually work? I have already figured out how much I would need to put away in order to pay my half of the mortgage for the next year in the event that I am the one that moves out. I also have a friend's mother who owns a couple of duplexes who would allow me to rent at $400 a month...so I guess I could also just save up a years rent as well? I just dont' know where to start.

Any help would be greatly appreciated. And thanks for all of your continued support!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh no don't move out.. I think that gives him the winning edge.

File, stay dont do.

But in the meantime, whoo hooo you feel great and know that you are worth something i feel great for you.

Start to save, start to get out, get in touch with your friends family confuse him.

Continue to feel alive, you and seek legal advise BEFORE you move, so you know off course i am in Australia but an older member Kaylar used to state ( she was a Lawyer) dont move out..

Here it is the same but i left my ex everything, easier.

Just review the facts available to you, start living for you in the meantime, and work on the end result as it becomes aparent on the best way to do it.

CW

[Searching_82]

As always CW...you are the best. Thanks for the encouragement and support