[elsa_niloo]

hi honey

i am so sorry about what you discovered. but i'm gonna tell you about my own experience.
my fiance then, now husband and i met about a year go and he told me that he had broken off with his gf, then i find out that he had another girlfriend (SEX BODY) during that gf that he was now trying to get rid of.

after i forced it outa him and he told me he had broken up with her already, i saw her loving text messages on his phone and i went zerk.
he did persuade me to stay and i later on married him and love him very much but there is not a single day that i regret not walking away that day.
to this friggin then when his cell rings, i start shaking and think that he is doing something behind my back.
truth is that the trust in our relationship went down the toilet that day and i was never able to regain it. you can love a person, but if there is no trust you might as well say goodbye to that relationship.
i am miserable every single day.

[patricialily2000]

i am married and i am only having sex twice a month.
i am 27 and he is 26, we have dated for 5 years and have been married for 2 almost 3yrs, and we have three small childeren the oldest which is 3 and the twins which are 2.
i am always the one to innitiate sex, ocassionally he does. and i am an attractive woman still, i don't know if he is bored with me, and sometimes i wonder if he is cheating me?

help!

[Chantalemma]

My father cheated opn his first wife with ehr best friend which is my Mother. He has cheated on my mother cosntantly and she up and left him 4 years ago. I can't say it was always easy for her. I am now 23 yrs old and I have a baby sister who is 15 yrs old. It was hard for her to understand but my mom and her a close and they moved out. She got herself an apartment. She doesn't work because of a disability... I have to say I have never seen my mother happier than right now. She is a greater mom to me and my sister, and well for my Father's sake. He can't abuse us or mentally affect us anymore... I have to say it is hard on a family when somebody cheats, but honestly... it does get better. You have to give it time and work on it, but it does get better. You have to be strong and take a really good look at your priorities. I wish everyone good luck.

[mrs B]

me personally i would divorce him , that is the end of the marriage many people have problems in their relationships and find other ways to work it out besides adultery , once you take it there the marriage is done and over.

[alaska]

I am so sorry for what has happened. It is hard to advise in these cases, I would take some time apart to clear my head.
Personally, it would be very hard to forgive something like this. Unfortunately, I could not forget it and I would become very suspicious about every little thing and that can not be healthy for anybody involved

Be strong.

[WildChild]

Interesting, this poster never came back