[CherylM]

Where do I start? I've been married for 6 years and found out my husband cheated yesterday ... I'm extremely heartbroken ... Not sure what to do! I haven't even been able to cry ... not sure if it's beacause I'm in shock or just that I expected it to happe.

[Hopeless Dork]

Chery , so sorry that you are going through this This is a great place to vent and air what you are feeling right now, what you felt like before and talk yourself through how you will be handling things going forward.

I would guess shock, since it just happened yesterday it has got to be feeling like you are in a dream right now a terrible one. You say that you expected it to happen, had your relationship been in trouble that you were aware of before yesterday? And how did you find out?

[CherylM]

Hi, thanks so much for the support. Well I've been suspecting something ... long working hours, mysterious phone calls ... the usual signs. I had confronted him several times but he just denied it. Yesterday he called to tell me some promotional company was looking for my cell no. from him, he said I should not answer as they were trying to sell me some Valentine gifts. Something inside me, call it "women's instinct" I knew it was about him cheating. When the call came it was the "other lady" apparently it has been happening for the last 6 months, he told her we were seperated. He obviously denies everything point blank, but she's given me evidence which proves it did happen, we haven't really spoken since then ... I really don't know what to do or where to turn next .. I love him, for the sake of our child I'd like to make it work but I'm not sure if I can. He can barely face me ...