[Hopeless Dork]

Her being in vegas, her coming back into town after the blow had been dealt, it does all seem contrived... The way they are still harassing you guys it makes it even more so that things didn't work out the way they had hoped. This guy was your husbands friend, but that doesn't mean he didnt dislike him, maybe envy his life, maybe felt bad about himself and decided to create a little diversion for his own sick amusement. The sister, perhaps this family is just a bit off... you said she's had a thing for your husband, perhaps that was the plot all along.

What gain DF had by making up a lie about an affair is nothing. He was gambling his friendship because he had no idea how he'd react, so makes me think he didn't think too much of it in the first place. One thing to come clean on an affair, another entirely to make up a lie that could potentially destroy a friendship and serve no other purpose.

Sometimes there is no reason for what mean people do, and you can strain your brain trying to figure out why, they are not your worry any more. You both just need to let them go and work on rekindling things the way they were before the 1st revelation, or even better than that.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Good luck hippiechick..

The fact that he wants to make an effort is all you can ask, but keep him on his toes, men have a tendancy of doing so, then forgetting haha, seriously.. and you have to smack them around a little (only joking)...

Personally though, 8 - 10 years friendship and you go tell me you slept with my wife? Sure, I wouldn't end the friendship until I found out the truth, just in case, because it was before you married, but, once i established in my mind that it was false? I would definately lose the friendship because friendships aren't based on lies, rather truth.

Still having difficulties with that one, what can i say....

CW