[CHANDLERS WISH]

rcoreyus
I'm sorry to say that it sounds like he has always been like this and there is no reason to think he will change. To be fair, its not clear he should change: it doesn't sound like he hid his interest in porn, drugs, etc.

ChandlersWish
For what ever reason, you thought that seeing as he cheated before you, seeing as he was sex-texting etc, that being "exclusive" with you he would settle down, and your answer was marriage, then he would settle down.

Your going to get alot of replies from women whom "didn't know" whom "didn't expect", you did.

I'm sorry that you couldn't "change" him but we can't change people who they are they are, we have to accept or walk...

I wish you every success in your life and you are no different than many women probably 90% of the population of women whom think they alone can change a man.

You can't, nor can a man change a woman.

What she is, she is, what he is he is.

Choose wisely in life, if not now, in the future.

CW

[WildChild]

I still see the lying, sneaking, drugs and lack of care for your satisfaction as the bigger issues. Sounds like an addictive person. It was drugs, now it's porn. How much are you willing to take ?