[starjoy08]

Good Luck !

[HALFNOTHING]

I feel all my angers past back return to me after reading your post sister..
i really feel the pain for you exactly define what happened to me past 2004-2008.. cheated on me 3 times with same girl. no sorry for his act and still i keep believing in my self that he loves me out of the fact that i see in my both eyes what he's doing isn't showing that he do.. denying.. It was hard to let go either because of money.. he has much until i realize, he sucks.. there's no more important in life except being HAPPY.. even though you have all if you're not happy.. I left our house and migrate to other country and i'm very happy for what i did.. it made me strong and stand in my own feet..

hope you can relate..

[Juda2oo9]

This is coming from the heart when i tell you.... GET OUT ........ AS SOON AS YOU CAN....
I can 500% understand what you're going through EMOTIONALLY.....
and you and I both know........ emotional pain can sometimes be much worse than any physical pain. expecially if its coming from the man you love.
But here's something you need to remember.......

"Women marry men hoping to change them........ Men marry women hoping they don't change".........

and 9 times out of 10... MEN DONT CHANGE....It's who they are, and its in their nature to conquer everything that walks. and truth me told..... we are really nothing more "than mammals"........and most men are too blind to see the big picture, cause their too busy thinking with the wrong brain.

Save yourself the heartache...... you'll suffer no matter which way you go. But i truly believe you'll suffer LESS by leaving.

[baja]

ladyj09, I hate to say this, but you're going to have to make a very hard decision. Your husband is grossly callous to your feelings, clearly manipulating you, definitely taking you for granted and absolutely can't let go of the other woman. Nothing short of an act of God will change him (see above post).

The quicker you get out, the sooner you'll find happiness.

[solonelyrightnow]

Sweetie I am in the same shoes you are my husband of 20 years cheated on me and told me it was over. To this day I cant' trust him and don't believe a word he tells me. The part that bothers me the most is the fact that he brings her up, my question would be why is he bringing her up.? You should ask yourself the same question I'm asking myself do you really want to be in a relationship where you have to worry not if but when is he going to cheat on you again?