My Husband Cheated and I am 7 Months Pregnant
I 've been married for a little over a year now, but my husband and I have been together for 4 years.
After we got married, we had problems because he was acting weird always wanted to go out and drink, and everything I wanted to do was to corney and not what he like doing.
We married in August 2008 and in November 2008 he moved out because of our problems and he ask me for a divorce, it hurt me a lot but I figure if he wasn't happy there was no point in being together. He still looked for me and wanted us to work things out, yet not live together.
In December he got pulled over and got DWI and a immigration hold because he is not a US CITIZEN. After his female boss "helped" us by paying the $7,500 dollar bond he was taken out of jail, and he moved back with me in January. 3-4 weeks after he told me he was moving out because we needed more money, and that I should go live with my mom.
I didn't understand him, but because I loved him I said okay, so we continue having a relationship but not live together, which I hated I always asked him to come back, that we didn't need xtra money, that we could be together, etc.
We always had problems because I was always told by friends, strangers, and family that he was sleeping with his boss. We fought he denied it, and that was it everything was okay for a day or two.
In May without planning it I became pregnant it was the weirdest thing because of the fact that we don't live together I know what day I became pregnant, because intercourse was very limited between us.
He was very happy I was pregnant, but still didn't want to live together.
He said "oh i'll move after the ultrasound" Didn't then he said " Oh, I'll move after we go talk to a lawyer about my green card" because I was going to file a petition for him so he won't get deported in April.
Well he didn't move even after we talk to the attorney.
I always cried and told him how much I needed him, especiallly because I was alone during my first pregnancy.
He never wanted to move in always had lame excuses, and said that I had everything I wanted because he would always give me money and buy me things.
Well Last Saturday after my baby shower, which he didn't attend I asked him to see the baby gifts with me, and he said he was too tired.
Later, I received a call and was told he was at his place of work (which is a bar and grill) and that he arrived with his boss. Well tired of the rumors I changed and went there and saw him.
I yelled at him and called him names for being such a liar.
His boss later came up and asked what was going on.
I told her that I was pregnant and my husband shouldn't be there. She told me " You just notice? For the last 9 months he has been living with me, and apperently lying to both of us because he told me he had nothing to do with you"
That is such a lie because everyone that he works with knows he is married and that we're expecting a child and she claims that she didn't know.
I am so hurt>> He hasn't even said sorry it's been 6 days now and all he has done is left me a note on my windshield saying that things aren't the way they seem and he wanted to explain everything to me... but I found out that yesterday he was hanging out with my ex friend who I don't like him hanging out with because she always talked bad stuff about him, and she and I aren't friends anymore, but anyways I don't know what to do everyday I pray for strength and for the will power to move on.. for my 5 year old, my baby on the way and myself...
What should I do, I love him and he has destroyed completly my dream of having a family together.
After we got married, we had problems because he was acting weird always wanted to go out and drink, and everything I wanted to do was to corney and not what he like doing.
We married in August 2008 and in November 2008 he moved out because of our problems and he ask me for a divorce, it hurt me a lot but I figure if he wasn't happy there was no point in being together. He still looked for me and wanted us to work things out, yet not live together.
In December he got pulled over and got DWI and a immigration hold because he is not a US CITIZEN. After his female boss "helped" us by paying the $7,500 dollar bond he was taken out of jail, and he moved back with me in January. 3-4 weeks after he told me he was moving out because we needed more money, and that I should go live with my mom.
I didn't understand him, but because I loved him I said okay, so we continue having a relationship but not live together, which I hated I always asked him to come back, that we didn't need xtra money, that we could be together, etc.
We always had problems because I was always told by friends, strangers, and family that he was sleeping with his boss. We fought he denied it, and that was it everything was okay for a day or two.
In May without planning it I became pregnant it was the weirdest thing because of the fact that we don't live together I know what day I became pregnant, because intercourse was very limited between us.
He was very happy I was pregnant, but still didn't want to live together.
He said "oh i'll move after the ultrasound" Didn't then he said " Oh, I'll move after we go talk to a lawyer about my green card" because I was going to file a petition for him so he won't get deported in April.
Well he didn't move even after we talk to the attorney.
I always cried and told him how much I needed him, especiallly because I was alone during my first pregnancy.
He never wanted to move in always had lame excuses, and said that I had everything I wanted because he would always give me money and buy me things.
Well Last Saturday after my baby shower, which he didn't attend I asked him to see the baby gifts with me, and he said he was too tired.
Later, I received a call and was told he was at his place of work (which is a bar and grill) and that he arrived with his boss. Well tired of the rumors I changed and went there and saw him.
I yelled at him and called him names for being such a liar.
His boss later came up and asked what was going on.
I told her that I was pregnant and my husband shouldn't be there. She told me " You just notice? For the last 9 months he has been living with me, and apperently lying to both of us because he told me he had nothing to do with you"
That is such a lie because everyone that he works with knows he is married and that we're expecting a child and she claims that she didn't know.
I am so hurt>> He hasn't even said sorry it's been 6 days now and all he has done is left me a note on my windshield saying that things aren't the way they seem and he wanted to explain everything to me... but I found out that yesterday he was hanging out with my ex friend who I don't like him hanging out with because she always talked bad stuff about him, and she and I aren't friends anymore, but anyways I don't know what to do everyday I pray for strength and for the will power to move on.. for my 5 year old, my baby on the way and myself...
What should I do, I love him and he has destroyed completly my dream of having a family together.
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