[p3375]

Agree w/ Ahrin - the problem isn't you. Nothing you did wrong or failed at. If he's truely gay, nothing he can do about the desire, he can only control what he does about it. You can control only how you react to his actions.
Couple of suggestions: keep an open mind, the fear of him being gay may blind you to the reality of it - don't let wishful thinking prevent you from seeing the truth. Also, check out PFLAG. An orginazation specifically for folks married to folks who are gay. Good info there.
Finally, this can be as hard on him as it is on you. Coming to terms w/ one's own sexuality can be terrifying if it is not what one always assumed it was.
good luck!
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[rhiannon34]

I have been intrigued by this thread since reading it, and in research the other night I came across a website, for men about masterbation, that had a poll. The poll was how many men watched gay porn and whether or not they were straight gay etc. I was very amazed that the responses were 25% of the men that answered were straight and enjoyed watching gay porn. This never occured to me that would be the case. I thought about this thread when reading it and even though the poster may still not be around, I thought it was very interesting.

[Faerunner]

I too enjoy watching lesbian porn (I am female), but I am bi-curious if not flat-out bi, so it would be more than a fantasy for me.

Didn't realize this thread was so old... sorry for replying! D: