[Mes T]

I used to like the idea of fancy weddings, but the older I get, the more I long for a simple one. I LOVE that barbeque idea!! Man as long as there's an isle of sorts to walk down, alcohol, dessert, and the people who matter most, what else is needed?

[LanaBear]

Weddings are overrated. I would not do it again, I'd go simple and comfy. I spent 15 months planning and had 250-300 guests. NEVER AGAIN! By the time the day came, I was entirely too stressed, had a major migraine, vomited all day from the headache and passed out as soon as I got to the hotel room that night.

Keep it simple and don't stress over it. Make it for the two of you and no one else. It's only you two that matter.

[saklamara]

I agree with Lana, at the end what matters is that you both enjoy it. Forget about the rest of the world.
People will always complain about something, if it is not the flowers is the color scheme, the food or the music...
But if you enjoy it, after one judging guest says the chicken was too dry he will say, "but the bride looked so happy"
Relax, is only a day... focus in what comes after.

[Sprite]

Relax, is only a day... focus in what comes after.

This is so true!!!!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It's mean't to be a special day right?

So, trust the Universe, if something goes wrong, there's a reason, it wasn't mean't to be, the food would have sucked and been delayed by 2 hrs and your guests would have been starving for instance

It's a stressful time, un-stress yourself, it will be beautiful, you will be beautiful and it will all turn out fine.

CW