[Kahn]

There are so many porn threads, and this is confusing.
Take it from a single guy that whatching porn is freakin depressing. Its makes you feel kind of lonely, which is probably why alot of single people whatch it in the first place. I can't really see why anyone would want to listen to fake and post recorded noises, and scripted scenes, when you can actually feel the touch of someone you're with. I don't think its that big a deal for someone in a relationship to stop. It shouldn't be this hard and complicated. But I guess it is.

[missinthelove]

My Fiance watches porn. He hides it but doesn't know I know he uses another internet browser, so I know when he watches it. Last week he watched it 5 out of the 7 days. The last time we had sex was April 13th of this year. almost 2 months ago. I finally told him I don't care if he watches porn unless it effects our sex life. He gets mad when I talk to a few of our close friends about it, cause he always finds out. He doesn't find me attractive but he's "in love" with me. I'm overweight and so is he. I don't have a problem with his weight and I've told him that but he can't stand himself. I'm trying to lose weight so hopefully he'll stop watching porn and pay more attention so me. If nothing changes though then I don't know what to do.

[saffyro]

Why that's a know attitude of a man. Being one of their kind i think there's only few that don't do the same thing (even it was prohibited).

[RachP]

I don't necessarily think watching porn is a big deal unless it interferes with your relationship. As far as denying it goes, he's probably embarrassed! It's the kind of thing most people do.. or at least think about but nobody talks about it, especially when confronted in such a way. I don't you should make him feel ashamed of himself, but be sure to let him know how you feel.