[sourpuss]

I agree with WC, 100%.
I fear it will go bad for you though. You'll get blamed so your husband doesn't have to stand up to his friends. So prepare yourself for that.

...and I CANNOT BELIEVE he opened the door to them when you were having sex!!!! That is absolutely ridiculous! They all sound very immature. Was it like this when you were dating?

[kira]

If they are taking food and items to use from everywhere first I'd set aside certain places they can take dishes (I'd use paper plates so no washing) and food from. The rest is off limits. If they don't obey words grab some safety locks or small bicycle chains with combination locks and start looping everything shut. That should get the message across. If you have a pantry with a turning door knob then replace it with a locking one that requires a key and keep all the food in there. When I was a teenager I replaced all the doors to my room with locking ones and it's really not hard. Take some screws out, slide new door knob on, and put some screws back in. Eventually it's gonna sink in to everyone involved that you will not tolerate this life. Then you will really see if your husband is worth it.

[WildChild]

LOL Just had a thought, go on a total "health food" diet. No soda, no beer, no booze, no chips, no pizza, no burgers, no sweets of any kind. Lots of salads. You could even go raw foods for a few weeks - you'll feel great and I'll bet the interest in what's in your cupboards will fade fast.

Another ploy, tell your husband you want to "spice things up" and you are going to start surprising him. The question is do you have the wherewithall to follow through? Get some sheer sexy stuff and give him a glimpse - seemingly by accident. Drop a few little slips of the tongue about the article you read or something you heard about greeting your hubby at the door wearing nothing but saran wrap, or you found a place that you can buy stick on nipple tassles... Get him a little nervous about what the buddies might see when they pop over unexpectedly. (Unless you think he's want them in on it) But you have to be ready to follow through to some degree with this.

Start owning your life with complete disregard for these mouches. They show up, sorry we're going out, buzz off. No you can't use our shower, go home and use your own. Can't feed you, our budget won't allow it.

Do watch it though, my first husband had an obnoxious buddy, who was always demanding his time and resources and getting him drinking and smoking dope. I stood up to the guy and ended up with a 45mag to my head. My black belt husband's response? "Why did you go and P him off?"

[PJhavinfunagain]

What WC said!!!

This is ridiculous and you do not need to put up with it! Do not go shopping or get a lock for your fridge.