Hey all feel kind of silly getting on a woman’s site but I need a woman’s view to ask, does my wife love me? We have been married for 12 years with two children both under 18. Look at the behavior.
1) She pretty much never wants to spend time with me and was on the computer a lot. At this time I was on nights so we were on different schedules and pretty much different lives, I understood why.
2) Since she moved she rarely calls me, I am calling her. She passes the phone to the kids after a few words. She says she is busy and forgets but assures me to not worry about it. When I call she remains in a noisy environment but when I visited her out of state a "friend" called she left the room immediately to hear and not be rude, she doesn't do this for me.
3) She instant messages (IM) all the time, even with me in bed during the visits. She hides the screen now because I read a message that was sexual, I know what I read, but she said I misunderstood and explained it away to which made sense but the text was sexual just not her doing it was an explanation by him I confused who wrote it. This couldn’t be confirmed due to the chat was closed. During that same visit she put a pillow between us to either hide her IM or not to interrupt my sleep with the light of the phone, I do not know which. I never asked about the pillow.
4) She had a reunion to which I watched the kids so she could go the pre reunion party. I was wanting to drink some beer due to the kids went to sleep and asked her if I could if she be alright (not drinking) and make it home safely. She sent texts and my phone is a pain to text on so I asked her to call. She called and said over and over she couldn’t hear me, which the club was loud. I asked her why she didn’t walk out of the club to call when she got home, there was no cover charge by the way, and she said she couldn’t. The Reunion I was able to go since the kids with her mom and I asked her if I can embarrass her to which she stated that I can do anything I want because I cannot embarrass her. I asked if she cares and she said no I love you nothing you can do will embarrass me.
5) The final thing that drives me nuts. On the last night of the visit (when she put the pillow between us) she said she had a UTI and was in pain and discomfort. I called the doctor but received no response and she didn’t want to go to urgent care. She was in so much discomfort that she couldn’t snuggle, but yet she IM'ed pretty much all night. She got back to my moms and said was feeling better and she may not go to the doctors. The test was positive for a UTI she says I didn’t read it but I don’t know.
She claims that she loves and all is good. What you all think? I kinda think I know but want confirmation or if I am just being paranoid since she is out of state.
1) She pretty much never wants to spend time with me and was on the computer a lot. At this time I was on nights so we were on different schedules and pretty much different lives, I understood why.
2) Since she moved she rarely calls me, I am calling her. She passes the phone to the kids after a few words. She says she is busy and forgets but assures me to not worry about it. When I call she remains in a noisy environment but when I visited her out of state a "friend" called she left the room immediately to hear and not be rude, she doesn't do this for me.
3) She instant messages (IM) all the time, even with me in bed during the visits. She hides the screen now because I read a message that was sexual, I know what I read, but she said I misunderstood and explained it away to which made sense but the text was sexual just not her doing it was an explanation by him I confused who wrote it. This couldn’t be confirmed due to the chat was closed. During that same visit she put a pillow between us to either hide her IM or not to interrupt my sleep with the light of the phone, I do not know which. I never asked about the pillow.
4) She had a reunion to which I watched the kids so she could go the pre reunion party. I was wanting to drink some beer due to the kids went to sleep and asked her if I could if she be alright (not drinking) and make it home safely. She sent texts and my phone is a pain to text on so I asked her to call. She called and said over and over she couldn’t hear me, which the club was loud. I asked her why she didn’t walk out of the club to call when she got home, there was no cover charge by the way, and she said she couldn’t. The Reunion I was able to go since the kids with her mom and I asked her if I can embarrass her to which she stated that I can do anything I want because I cannot embarrass her. I asked if she cares and she said no I love you nothing you can do will embarrass me.
5) The final thing that drives me nuts. On the last night of the visit (when she put the pillow between us) she said she had a UTI and was in pain and discomfort. I called the doctor but received no response and she didn’t want to go to urgent care. She was in so much discomfort that she couldn’t snuggle, but yet she IM'ed pretty much all night. She got back to my moms and said was feeling better and she may not go to the doctors. The test was positive for a UTI she says I didn’t read it but I don’t know.
She claims that she loves and all is good. What you all think? I kinda think I know but want confirmation or if I am just being paranoid since she is out of state.
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