[KMonte85]

sheesh, calm down - nobody here said you were a piece of garbage, we just want to know your story (the HONEST story) so we can give you the advice you're seeking.

So tell us what is going on, one more time. First, please clarify if you are married to this woman or if she's your girlfriend... then tell us again what the issue is! We'll try to help, if you let us...

[sourpuss]

No one can help you or give advice if all you want to do is feel sorry for yourself. No one is going to jump on the poor you, you're just a stupid, lying man bandwagon. So you made up some stuff, got called out and now you feel silly. Ok. So throwing a pity party is the solution? Do you want advice about your situation? If you do, then you're going have to actually tell us (the truth) about what your situation is. You're married, she's your girlfriend, she cheated, nothing happened, masturbation problems, etc. Honestly, we have no idea what's going on.

[stressed]

We want to help you, not to make you feel sorry for yourself or call you names. We just need the truth first. We all make mistakes and we are all worthy of forgiveness. We understand why you lied and we want to help you regardless of that. You have nothing to worry about, this place is totally anonymous. Just talk to us.