[Depressedboy]

Im gonna go by steps..

Me and my wife both Truly Love Each Other, our relationship is beautiful and fun like two little kids in love...everythings perfect...but recently...she met a guy who she felt could be her Soul Mate etc,

she was more Attracted to him than me etc..
they met, they were just friends i didnt mind, i trusted her...I trusted her Love for me,
one day the guy started Insisting to her to go out with him, she rejected him, she was strong but still
she was weak, inside her head she wanted to be with him...and have an Affair but she resisted the good thing is....nothing happened, she didnt have sex with him or anything...but the Thought and everything else...everything was there and we know thats considered cheating,
she flirted with him alot.


There conversations were "sometimes" steamy etc...
and ever since that day the Relationship between has somehow...lost its Happiness,
were still together and were Happy together like a Cute Love we do EVERYTHING together,
we have lots of fun and the Bond between us is sooo Strong and so Pure.

i dont know what she feels but my love for her is so True so Clean, so Caring,
So Sweet, she's My Angel and we want to get married and have a Family.

But ever since that...were both hurt...she hates herself, she feels depress cause of this Emotional Affair, but she sucks it in cause she knows if i see her Hurt ill be sad and upset...and she sucks it in..


Same goes for me...what happened, even if still she was'nt with him, the Emotional Affair has left me lifeless..and this scar wont let me be Happy...sometimes i have to Pretend to Smile and...
were still Virgins...we avoid intimacy cause for some reason we both know it will hurt us and it wont be magical...like we expected..

I Love Her and i know she Loves me..i want to be with her Always, i wanna protect her and help her..I kiss her Forhead everyday, i make her smile laugh, she does the same with me, were both sweet to each other...its True Love i know it is...

But it hurts me that...she has to hide her suffering...and i dont know what to do..i dont want to leave her...i dont want to...but sometimes i think that maybe if were just friend she will fall out of Love..and she'll meet someone and be Happy =")

Even if that means ill be...idk..problably dead idk..i cant imagine my life without her i refuse to be Happy without her and i really dont know what to do..we think Time will helps us..but time cant heal these things...she knows im hurt, but i care more about her than i do to myself.


Im lost..i wish we could go back in time and prevent this...but..i really dont know im sorry i keep repeating myself i just....i cant barely see the Computer screen from all my crying..

I need help...were both 23..i wish you could help me out...anyone...i dont know what to do..
yes...im still hurt cause of it...i know she is too...i dont want to see her hurt and suffering this in silence, i want to see her happy, please help...

And please dont just say Leave her because You have NO idea, how much I Love her, id die for her right now, and...i dont want to be without her, she is everything to me, all i need, im sorry, i keep repeating myself please help anyone.

[jns]

Im gonna go by steps..

Me and my wife both Truly Love Each Other, our relationship is beautiful and fun like two little kids in love...everythings perfect...but recently...she met a guy who she felt could be her Soul Mate etc,

she was more Attracted to him than me etc..
they met, they were just friends i didnt mind, i trusted her...I trusted her Love for me,
one day the guy started Insisting to her to go out with him, she rejected him, she was strong but still
she was weak, inside her head she wanted to be with him...and have an Affair but she resisted the good thing is....nothing happened, she didnt have sex with him or anything...but the Thought and everything else...everything was there and we know thats considered cheating,
she flirted with him alot.


There conversations were "sometimes" steamy etc...
and ever since that day the Relationship between has somehow...lost its Happiness,
were still together and were Happy together like a Cute Love we do EVERYTHING together,
we have lots of fun and the Bond between us is sooo Strong and so Pure.

i dont know what she feels but my love for her is so True so Clean, so Caring,
So Sweet, she's My Angel and we want to get married and have a Family.

But ever since that...were both hurt...she hates herself, she feels depress cause of this Emotional Affair, but she sucks it in cause she knows if i see her Hurt ill be sad and upset...and she sucks it in..


Same goes for me...what happened, even if still she was'nt with him, the Emotional Affair has left me lifeless..and this scar wont let me be Happy...sometimes i have to Pretend to Smile and...
were still Virgins...we avoid intimacy cause for some reason we both know it will hurt us and it wont be magical...like we expected..

I Love Her and i know she Loves me..i want to be with her Always, i wanna protect her and help her..I kiss her Forhead everyday, i make her smile laugh, she does the same with me, were both sweet to each other...its True Love i know it is...

But it hurts me that...she has to hide her suffering...and i dont know what to do..i dont want to leave her...i dont want to...but sometimes i think that maybe if were just friend she will fall out of Love..and she'll meet someone and be Happy =")

Even if that means ill be...idk..problably dead idk..i cant imagine my life without her i refuse to be Happy without her and i really dont know what to do..we think Time will helps us..but time cant heal these things...she knows im hurt, but i care more about her than i do to myself.


Im lost..i wish we could go back in time and prevent this...but..i really dont know im sorry i keep repeating myself i just....i cant barely see the Computer screen from all my crying..

I need help...were both 23..i wish you could help me out...anyone...i dont know what to do..
yes...im still hurt cause of it...i know she is too...i dont want to see her hurt and suffering this in silence, i want to see her happy, please help...

And please dont just say Leave her because You have NO idea, how much I Love her, id die for her right now, and...i dont want to be without her, she is everything to me, all i need, im sorry, i keep repeating myself please help anyone.

First of all, im a guy and i know this is a Women only forum im Sooooo Sorry, but this is problably the ONLY place im sure i can get help and advice.

Please Help me out here...
Im 21 me and my love were still virgins, but its my fault not hers, i have a problem and im depressed over it. Just to make it clear im not small im around average around 7'5 etc, thats not the problem my concern here is...Her Pleasure.

True most guys dont care about the Pleasure of a women but I Truly do about mine, I love her to death and I want to make her feel like a Princess but heres the thing, from everything ive read, its really hard to give a women an Orgasm and im realllyy scared.


My girlfriend masturbates, ive seen her, using Vibrators, and also Humping Soft fabric, rubbing herself on Pillows etc, and it makes her wild now here the thing, I know Intercourse wont feel as good to her than it is to me but, will i ever be able to pleasure her like she does herself?


Im really depressed...i feel Un-wanted and...Un-Attractive, i want to be able to make her feel good, but right now the only thing that i think will make her feel good is if I put a Soft Fabric like a pillow on top of me while she rubs it, like masturbating, other than that i really dont know....


I feel so stupid for some reason but i really care about her and i want to make her feels good, but im not sure cause...i mean im not as Soft or Fluffy as A pillow or im not as Fast as A vibrator etc so..

I really dont know what to do...i feel like im worthless for her =(

im just depressed....and im starting to feel afraid..cause I know she can pleasure me but idk i can or can pleasure her more than the things she does etc..


I really need help most likely soon, well move in together and yeah something will happen...but im really..idk just Lost really i need you girls Help please, Serious Help.

Hewwo, Yeah thats my Baby Language lol XD anyway im new here Hi everyone! ^^

I came here to seek help i post a Question on Sex Forum thingy so i appreciate anyone to help me out other than that, im glad to be here, i was told by a friend to come here cause i needed help on somestuff etc..

So yeah hope you guys like me and dont kick me out XD jk
Anyways yeah thats pretty much it :P

Cya ! ^^
Btw im 20, i sound young but im not im just friendly ^^

Ok, i asked a question which really helped me out and thanks alot to those who did help me and now i sat down with my Love and talked and, basicly shes depressed and both of us need help, were both still virgins and our Relationship is sweet and Beautiful like Little Kids in Love =).


I dont masturbate much cause i control myself, my sex drive is very active, hers is too she masturbates alot using Vibrators and Rubbing herself on Soft fabric like Pilows etc, we both will stay Virgins till Mariage cause somehow we both think its right hehe.

So everything sounds perfect right now..the problem is were afraid that our Intimacy (sex) wont be what we expect...shes depressed cause she wants ME to pleasure her, cause she wants me to do everything to her etc, however all over the world, people say, Men arent able to Pleasure women like when they Use Vibrators, or cause Men arent as Soft as Pillows etc...

True our Love will make everything better but, whats bothering her is that i mean...nothing will ever be able to compare to the kind of Pleasure and Orgasm she has with herself (Vibrator,Rubbing etc)

So were both desperate...were depressed we cant sleep, were basicly going crazy, we dont even know if our Sex will be AS GOOD as the things she does so...


I really wanna help her i really hope i get some serious advice cause I Love her and she really needs it, i know i can pleasure her but yeah shes just Scared and Psyced about all this just like i am..


Please Help anyone =(

Depressedboy, not knowing what age you are is a real problem

[CHANDLERS WISH]

JNS your answer

I need help...were both 23.

or

Btw im 20, i sound young but im not im just friendly ^^

or

Im 21 me and my love were still virgins

I see your point.....

[jns]

JNS your answer



or




or



I see your point.....

Also

Im 21 me and my love were still virgins, but its my fault not hers

I wonder what else isn't the way it seems to be.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Depressedboy, you know when you start lying, you get caught out...

That's actually the way the World works....

Personally? We're calling Troll... I mean, your 20, 21, 23, 7 and a half inches, but she's only a Virgin because you won't do anything until married, she's your girlfriend, but then she's your wife...and then the emotional affair, and sexual energy plus.

Your going to have to clarify a few things I believe, before we press the "zzzzzzzzzz" button.....

CW

[Depressedboy]

ok the thing is yes im only 19, the reason i lied was because if i came here saying i was young i would problably get kicked out .
thats why i lied yes im sorry, but really, i really need help on this, true that problem we already worked on it, the whole Masturbating fear thing etc, and really thank you.

But please dont block me out on this, we've been dealing with this for like months now since it happened, recently like 2 days ago we sat down and talked about it and yes she is very hurt and all those things i wrote.

yes i lied about my age but just because im 19 doesnt mean im an ignorant child, i know whats right and whats wrong, and im mature about things, but please before you kick me out for lying about my age please just help me out in this ok?

please i beg you, and please it hurts the things you guys said.."If i lie ill get caught"
im not like that, the only reason I lied was because i needed HELP and im depressedly looking for it, true ill get in trouble for faking my age but before i do just help me idk what to do to help her, sometimes i think about suicide but i wont because theres not difference between leaving her and killing myself, and i dont wanna leave her so please.


IM sorry about my age im 19, think what you want about me but im here for her, i didnt really want to join the forum im just here because i need a womens advice etc, so please etc, yes im sorry...i understand if you wont help me out...true, i guess maybe al i do is hurt her..im so sorry, will you just help? and ill leave the forum.

and please dont think cause im 19 im ignorant or something cause im not...and you people have NO ABSOLUTE IDEA what my life has been so PLEASE...please advice, idk maybe you ve been through something similar,help.

[Depressedboy]

"were still virgins, its my fault not hers" YES it is my fault, she wants us to be intimate but its hard for me...its not that i dont want to but, put yourself in my place, knowing those things^ i wrote and on top, im am Shy and very insercure. When i found out about her masturbating with Vibrators etc, the first thing that comes to my mind is that i wont be good enough etc, but that question was answered and thanks to Helpless dork for helping me out, 2 days ago we talked, she admited she feels guilt, regret, hate etc about what happened, so i dont think its only my fault were still virgins, she's been avoiding it too, the only thing i lied about was my age im sorry, i just need help, i need to know what things to do to help her and make her happy i really have no idea what to do, ill leave the forums after this, and im sorry, but before i go dont block me out on this question, im here for her, cause idk what to do, and just to make it straight.


I was actually gonna join lying saying i was a women, i didnt know men were also permited here im really sorry.
And im sorry for double posting, i know its wrong im so so sorry.

[stressed]

Can you post, once again and in detail, what you need help with? When did you marry (if you are married), how you met, what is the problem exactly, without "etc." in it.

Are you on medication for your depression?

[WildChild]

Deep breath here. Yes, men are welcome here, so is anyone 13 yrs old and up.
How about we start over and you give us a straight forward account of what is going on and we'll see what we can do to help you out. Right now it's all over the place and hard to follow.
You are 19
You are both virgins
Are you married? Living together?
You've been together a year?
She masterbates with vibrators?

[Depressedboy]

you know what...its alright i see the problem here..im just depressed and confused...but just to make it clear the only thing i lied aout was im 19,
my age thats all..but your right maybe im just a piece of garbage like most men...im a lying..worthless nothing and im sorry i came here and i made a big lie..im sorry maybe shes better of without me..im sure she is..maybe all i do is hurt her, i should just..idk do the best.

im sorry i came here.