Just tell me, what would you do..
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What would you do..
I was wondering what would you do if your boyfriend happened to talk with a couple of another girls over the phone for hours at a time even when you are there, and talk more romantic with them.. And when you ask, if he says "that's confidential"..
Just tell me, what would you do.. -
If my guy was talking romantically on the phone for hours to another woman in front of me and then told me it was none of my business when he got off the phone... I would not feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. Part of what makes a guy your boyfriend is that they are faithful and stuff, and talking romantically to other girls on the phone for hours isn't exactly going to make the girlfriend feel special.... adding insult to injury and not even explaining why I heard what I just heard would confirm to me that he was no longer my boyfriend.
Sometimes people don't break up with words, they break up with actions... those actions would tell me that he was interested in other people and on top of that, he no longer cared about my feelings and was in no way trying to work things out. I'd have to no choice but to believe what his actions were saying.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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^^Agreed. Any guy who would do that clearly has no respect for his girlfriend, and is also clearly not interested anymore. Definitely RUN from this relationship!If my guy was talking romantically on the phone for hours to another woman in front of me and then told me it was none of my business when he got off the phone... I would not feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. Part of what makes a guy your boyfriend is that they are faithful and stuff, and talking romantically to other girls on the phone for hours isn't exactly going to make the girlfriend feel special.... adding insult to injury and not even explaining why I heard what I just heard would confirm to me that he was no longer my boyfriend.
Sometimes people don't break up with words, they break up with actions... those actions would tell me that he was interested in other people and on top of that, he no longer cared about my feelings and was in no way trying to work things out. I'd have to no choice but to believe what his actions were saying.Comment
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