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  • vishva8kumara
    Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 21

    What would you do..

    I was wondering what would you do if your boyfriend happened to talk with a couple of another girls over the phone for hours at a time even when you are there, and talk more romantic with them.. And when you ask, if he says "that's confidential"..

    Just tell me, what would you do..
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    He's your boyfriend it is only confidential, if he is single.. I would tell him is that so? If you want to flirt, play then get out of my life, and have a good one....

    CW
    PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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    • Hopeless Dork
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 4255

      If my guy was talking romantically on the phone for hours to another woman in front of me and then told me it was none of my business when he got off the phone... I would not feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. Part of what makes a guy your boyfriend is that they are faithful and stuff, and talking romantically to other girls on the phone for hours isn't exactly going to make the girlfriend feel special.... adding insult to injury and not even explaining why I heard what I just heard would confirm to me that he was no longer my boyfriend.

      Sometimes people don't break up with words, they break up with actions... those actions would tell me that he was interested in other people and on top of that, he no longer cared about my feelings and was in no way trying to work things out. I'd have to no choice but to believe what his actions were saying.
      Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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      • KMonte85
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 3303

        What would I do? I would tell him to enjoy his phone conversations, because he's going to have a lot of extra time to talk.

        Then I'd leave and never look back.

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          I would say good bye - permanently

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          • SaharaJim
            Veteran Member
            • Jun 2010
            • 426

            What they said!

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            • Ashlee T.
              Veteran Member
              • Dec 2008
              • 6412

              If he's truly talking romantically to other women, in front of you, or behind your back.........then love him or not, afraid of being alone or not...... I'd be out the door WITHOUT ANY doubt.
              "Be what you're looking for."

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              • Texinator
                Veteran Member
                • Sep 2009
                • 5556

                I'd have a threesome.

                Between your foot, his rear, and the curb.

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                • Ashlee T.
                  Veteran Member
                  • Dec 2008
                  • 6412

                  I'd have a threesome.

                  Between your foot, his rear, and the curb

                  Lol. Nice.
                  "Be what you're looking for."

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                  • PandaPaws
                    Veteran Member
                    • May 2010
                    • 216

                    Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
                    If my guy was talking romantically on the phone for hours to another woman in front of me and then told me it was none of my business when he got off the phone... I would not feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. Part of what makes a guy your boyfriend is that they are faithful and stuff, and talking romantically to other girls on the phone for hours isn't exactly going to make the girlfriend feel special.... adding insult to injury and not even explaining why I heard what I just heard would confirm to me that he was no longer my boyfriend.

                    Sometimes people don't break up with words, they break up with actions... those actions would tell me that he was interested in other people and on top of that, he no longer cared about my feelings and was in no way trying to work things out. I'd have to no choice but to believe what his actions were saying.
                    ^^Agreed. Any guy who would do that clearly has no respect for his girlfriend, and is also clearly not interested anymore. Definitely RUN from this relationship!

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