[Julikado]

Since we got married with my husband,four years now,he has been very active sexually but recently,I have noticed that he has relaxed like he can now go for even 2 weeks without showing interest.I have tried to investigate whether he could be having it elsewhere but I cannot get any evidence.we haven't discussed it though I am just watching at him to see how far he can go.Please advice if you can.

[Guest]

What makes you think that "...he could be having it elsewhere..." ? Does he have a history of cheating? Flirting? Inappropriate activity? Or is it just because his libido has changed?

Many people get "comfortable" after they marry. The "chase" is over, they don't feel they need to put forth the effort they once did, they have no need to "impress" you, etc.

I would ask him what has changed since you got married? Where has the sex gone that you use to have often? What's going on that has caused him to reduce his interest in sex?

Have you changed at all since you got married? Are you still "chasing" him? Flirting? Going on dates?

[LanaBear]

Until you can talk to him, well, then I wouldn't be jumping to any conclusions about where he may or may not be getting sex.

You need to openly try to communicate with him, without being able to do so what kind of relationship do you have?